I am a Leo that fell hard once for a Scorpio Man! And yes, I thought he was the man of my dreams! Tall, handsome, sexy, well dressed, nice cars and very mysterious & Jamaican. Well, it turned out that he was married and he had a chick on the side. He told me he was gonna take care of me until I heard of him having a son (He told me and saw me much less). But whenever I ran into him he gave me lunch money or gas money. He was nice to me. Less often he came to my house and he would lay and hold me. Oh, and talk about trusting me! Ha!
It took 5 years for me to figure him out. His wife was his business partner, he wouldn't admit. His chick was the parking lot girl where he and his wife parked. Once his wife kicked him out of their $750,000 home, Mr. In Love With Me, to me he came! This was after knowing him 5 years. I found out nothing from him. I played Hector Detector! So all that mystery...HuH! He's dong something else, PLAYING YOU! OK! Don't fall for it LEO! You're much stronger than that, and you're worth more!
He came to stay at my house and texted all day long. Telling me he was talking to his sister in Jamaica. I even let him use my car because he said he had to check on his house. He and his wife had owned 4 or 5 properties. He was trying to get one through the divorce (that he never admitted to). He told me a story of his friend that found a man in his wife's bed, well it was him! She was evidently tired of his S....! Anyway, I went to his house to find nothing in it. He didn't have a job cause she kicked him to the curb! They were immigration lawyers and they made bucks! Oh did I say lawyers (She was the licensed Lawyer).
After dropping him off several different times on some corner that this guy was supposed to meet him (that was B...Too). And on top of that he came home smelling like somebody else's perfume. He would laugh and tell me I was insecure, NOT! And he would hide in my bathroom to text! One time he even said he needed my car overnite! I was in love...I let him take it!
Oh and when he took my car he would always take all my keys off so she wouldn't see that the keys belonged to a female, so I used to give him my girly keyring, he used to take it off and hide it. Yeah, SIGNS! And yesss, I did the Tarot, IChing, etc. He was on his own mission! Love ain't it!
To make a long story short. he left my house one day to do something (LIE) so I started calling his phone. From 10am or so. Finally, around 3 some chick answers, "He's not here, but he'll be back!" So, inquisitive me says do you live near ...(this place where I dropped him off?) She says, "yes" Mystery Solved!!!!!
I told her to meet me on that corner, I gathered his clothes and met her and said, "you can have him!!!!!!!" We talked for over an hour and she knew his wife (of course)! and gave me the low down! OK
An hour or so later he came to my house probably ran the whole way looking in my eyes with a lost love look. It wasn't the same one he gave the 10 times after coming from her house! Or taking her to Atlantic City in my car the nite he had to go to his house! She told me everything that he had been her lover for 5 years and that was how long he knew me. You know how we believe the woman. She told it all! How she was pregnant twice and lost both babies. God was trying to tell her that he wasn't hers!
She had been taking care of him while he was living with me, telling her lies, too! But she didn't care. He eventually moved her into his house so she could take care of his bills, etc. What a good move on his part. That's who he needed! I had my own house to pay for.
So, dear Leo! My advice, find a less handsome, too into you guy, that loves YOU! Not himself because Scorpio Men love themselves way too much!
PS. The wife and the chick had the same birthdate! Nov 21st. Isn't that the cusp of Scorpio/Sag?
We had an non-fighting altercation where I went to his house, he still wouldn't admit she lived with him. He would ask me for money and begged me to pay his plane far to Jamaica. Well, I went to pick him up at his house, he was in the door. (probably lied to her in the house about some man picking him up) and I took him to the ATM, gave him $200 for his trip.
He called me from Jamaica and said he may need me to pick him up from the airport. I was still in love! OK, he never called back while he was there and later accused me of harassing his family when I called back to him (while he was there). He then called from Florida telling me the plane had problems and I went to the airport to pick him up. Never saw him and he (of course) wouldn't answer his phone for 2 days. I decided to go to his house and get my books he had so I could lay this relationship to rest finally. When I went, it took him 15 minutes to answer the door. He was so busy in there trying to hide the suitcases and her stuff! LOL! When he came to the door, he fumbled wanting me to take my clothes off at the door! I said no and that we'd have to go upstairs. He was STILL LYING! I knew she was living there, but what I didn't know was that she went to Jamaica with him and I was Pissed, because he cam to me for money. (I broke a few things in his house that day) and he filed domestic charges against me with lies! Well, I hired a lawyer and the charges were removed from me and they put a restraining order on him!
They're very vicious when they're unhappy! He talks to you only on the weekend, that's probably when his woman works! Trust me Scorpio's have to have more than 1 woman!
Also, I'm an all that Leo! I have many guys who want to be with me! We are an asset! Don't forget that about yourself. Stop apologizing - he's using you. Yeah, he may have some feelings, but he has too much going on to be YOUR man. Stop wasting your time! I went through all the calls he wouldn't answer when he was with the other woman! I see the signs girl! I've totally been there!
IT ALMOST SOUNDS LIKE THE SAME MAN, except he's a shrink! PLEASE DON'T LET HIM SHRINK YOU! YOU'LL BE SORRY TO HAVE WASTED SO MUCH TIME!
Read Russell Simmons' book "DO YOU!!"