yes i have recently told him my feelings only because he made a move in communication to me and that conversation consisted of a little of his rehab and new found christian beliefs he acted as if i would never understand where he was coming from but i told him until he told me he was right i would never be able to understand so therefore tell me talk to me, he did a little just enough for me to get a picture but my baggage still says otherwise which is my issue not his and i do not make that to be his issue only something i have to work through. he still says he can only b friends right now but still continues to take me to certain outtings with his family but after the evening is over i get a hug a kiss and a goodnight. when we were first meeting it was a completely different ball game, spending the night, talking walks, going shopping. he left it as a conversation to be continued which we really didn't open to conversation but he did let me in a little n his spiritual or religous beliefs. im willing to stick with it but i too am just doing my own thing, remaining to be happy, i continue to do my meditations. i don't think meditations are a part of his beliefs. sometimes i feel like he met his match here and wants me to be the bad guy so he can feel pain and hurt to everyone but im not going to let that happen because that isn't the type of person i am, i'm not dating or seeing anyone but him but just continuing to be me and do what i do. the first week was really obsessive and i had an anxiety attack and told him not to get attached but since then i've stated my feelings toward him differently and this is where i am with him now, drop offs after dates, txt and phone calls here and there but our once a week saturday evening outting with him and his family.
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RE: Scorpio Man / Aries Woman
RE: Scorpio guy, I am desparetly waiting for...
I've had similar situation with one. We met, he came on strong, I was in a different space in my life, but yet after spending a few days together I was falling, then we had sex and it was the best thing ever. I could feel again in the small of my back, had never had that feeling before, but a few days after that he was stil coming on strong and i had an anxiety attack and told him not to get attached. I regret ever saying that because now it's every three months off and on, we don't go on walks anymore or dinner or movies until a few months ago when he ran into a mutual friend of mine, told this friend we were dating but it wasn't anything serious, but now all of a sudden I'm meeting his parents, going with him to do what he does for a living with his parents, his parents have completely opened up to me, yet with him, I see him once a week when we do our weekly outing, we haven't had sex in 3 months and all i hear about scopios is their sex drive. i'm an aries with a very high sex drive myself but have maintained the abstinance to be with him i have no reason to date anyone else nor do i want to. it's just a very strange situation and i'm just not used to it. I know sex isn't the issue because I have had relationships many more men then not telling me I'm the best they ever had. But he is also a AA / Rehab and I know they have to focus on something sometimes, he gets very angry, I leave him alone. The first time we kissed it was awesome and he looked at me and said oh my god you are a very good kisser. Some of this I think was BS but then when you hear it from so many. I'm don't look at myself ego that way, but just want someone to trust and love and was hoping he was it because of the way he made me feel.
I think i hurt him and now i'm being tortured but for how long does it last
RE: Scorpio Man / Aries Woman
Up until now I have not been angry or needy and just going with the flow. I have no resentments as I know these are traits of a Scorpio. He also sees that I am a strong, independent woman yet very laid back with no conflicts and when I have something to do I do it and tell him, this is what I have going on. I wait till he contacts me but as the months go on, the distance gets longer and longer. Again, I don't want to bring baggage from past in, and at this point if he were to tell me that I was the only one and that he is not out dating around or seeing other women, it would relieve me a lot and would continue to just go with the flow and be strong and there for him. But I just don't know that, now, I'm thinking if I even have to ask this question.....well, it probably isn't going to happen. I just got out of a relationship that was similar on it was Aries/Aries we were so much alike and soulmates that we knew certain aspects of our relationship would only go so far. I'm an impatient Aries. Maybe this Scorpio is trying to teach me patience while he is dealing with his feelings.
Thank you all. I do welcome any other suggestions too.
Scorpio Man / Aries Woman
18 mo ago I ran into a man who I happen to go to high school with. He is a scorpio. We didn't know each other until he gave me his name and phone number. I was in a position where I was not looking for a relationship or even dating. He came on strong, persued me, and after 4 days of being with me and sending me emails and good mornings txts and calls we slept together and it was the best ever. I mean, i'm 50, been around the block more then once, but not a big o hoe or anything, but it was exactly whatI was looking for, then I had an anxiety attack because of a situation i was in. I tried to talk to my new man about it but it seemed it was a no fly zone. We continued hot n heavy then just sort of died off. I wouldn't see or hear from him for 2-3 months and when he did call he wanted to be with me. He also is a rehab, AA, born again christian. He doesn't talk about any of it. I know very little. This dance has been going on for 18 mos now. He keeps distance from me, but yet told me he only wants me when he wants me. He doesn't open up and leaves me feeling like I am only a 3 month thing. He is very very busy with his work and because he is an AA I understand he has to replace things with others and being a born again christian sex sometimes is out of the question only when he wants it. I am continually bringing up baggage with myself and beat myself up with what have I done wrong. Slowly he has let me in with certain things like knowing his birthday and other little things. Recently, he has taken me to what he does and met his parents which was a surprise. He didn't tell me that I would be meeting his family. Now, every week I spend a lot of time with his family. All along I just wanted to get to know him more and him to get to know me more, he came on strong, then backed off and when I said some things he put some distance now I am a part of the family. His mom and dad give me hugs, tell me to take care of him, but yet, I still don't know where I stand and because of his work, which takes time, and precision, I don't want to bring up stupid BS like where do I stand with you. I will wait until the season is over and then ask him where I stand. But really would a scorpio man really bring someone into his life like this to meet his family if there wasn't something else there. I really have strong feelings for him and want to tell him but I don't want to blow anything....HELP!!!!