I am also with a gem who is in his late 30s and he was living with his ex g/f when I meet him, I am a pisces and that did not fly with me, so I made him cut the ties with the ex's. We are like a light switch on one mintue and off again. But I do agree with HeavenlyBohemian Once you say NO they are back at your feet begging to come back.
I think its the thrill of the catch, they always to seem to want what they cant have. Me I just get mad and we end it until he figures out what he wants, and they normally only last a few days..lol
I do love him tho, we have a connection thats out of this world and I think thats whats keeping him around and me wanting more. I can feel him thinking about me and it just turns me on.Sex is freaking awesome, if you like sex find a pisces women, they are freaks in the sheets...lol
Despite what Astrologers say that pis/gim are not compatable, i have been with him for 3 yrs and our best freinds are also pis/gim and has been married for 27 yrs and still happy. We have our ups and downs but work thur them. So like the others said take it slow and find that feeling inside that makes you bound with that person and you find the right one. I knew from the first kiss he was mine