Good morning, all .... I am enjoying reading your posts, and I, too, am in love with a Cancerian man .... an enigma, to be sure!! What started out as a totally casual relationship about 18 months ago has turned into a truly high-octane encounter with my own wishes, hopes and dreams attuned to this Cancer man. Shortly before theholidays last year, he invited me to be in his life and told me he wanted to be in mine. He has, however, still made no moves in that direction and seems to be going through the back-up self reflection phase, leaving me in the "don't know what to do" phase. He's a road man .... a long-distance truck driver and is in and out of town on that schedule (totaly unpredictable) .... a very frustrating state of affairs ... literally. He only calls when he can get a signal and if he thinks about it (hmmmm ....) but most often when he's on his way back home (yea....) This goes on and on .... I'm trying to be patient, very patient .... but this is no way to build a relationship .... up until two weeks ago, I was calling and leaving daily voice mails ... just to let him know he was in my thoughts .... can't do that anymore .... just like talking to air .... not good .... this man sends my rocket to the moon (and all that ....) and I don't want to "pass" on this .... just sharing my thoughts and experience .... call me "tired and just about done" .... and I really don't want to be .....