This retrograde is kicking my a......

I'm posting here because of my problems with an Aqua I've been dating. Im a Libra. So I get monthly updates from Astrograph and I really enjoy them because they always seem to be dead on. As you may know we are going through a retrograde and I feel like everything between me and the Aqua is going backwards, it sucks cause it seems as if things will never be right again.

It all started on the sat of the new moon... with his moody ass attitude, that he shouldve checked at the plane door. I was in a great mood by the way and I tried to get him to come over to my side repeatedly but he wasn't gonna be happy until he pulled me down with him, and I let him. I didn't say one word the long drive back from picking him up. When my mood changes bad he's all good and wants to talk but by that time I feel like butter because of him. then it becomes my fault....things have been bad the past 2 weeks

I read Astros configurations (after the fact) and it says to keep reactivity to a min and of course what have I been doing reacting! I feel so out of control, its all crap now...idk I don't want to be done with it but now everything feels out of place...ugh!

Anyone have experience with Aqua...

to add do you think this response"hello, and its late I can't talk goodnight."

to his "hey" was too blunt, abrassive. ?

Hi Ladies I have a question about this virguy that i've been dealing with I started a thread a while ago called virgo man won't forgive Libra woman, well we actually got passed that. the last thing I added was this update

Well the last time we spoke was Dec 21....I really just got tired of his back and forth and asked him striaght up what the deal was are you doing this or are you not because this "situation" doesn't benefit me you fly in whenever it suits you and I might as well fine someone new because this is stupid thats what i told him either you are gonna make time for me or not I said tell me right now the buck stops here....he says I don't have a GF and not looking for one and then goes on to say but now I hurt your feelinds and thats not cool...

Wow at this guy so i say to him what hurts my feelings is the fact that I brought this to you on several occasions that if you are not ok with the way things are now to let me know and I will show myself to the exit (giving him the benefit of the doubt here is his chance to not string me along and be straight up) I said to him I can't be mad about the way you feel but I gave you chances to tell me what you want, I told him that I have feelings for him and that it was obvious that he didn't share those feelings so it would be best to leave it here... I told him that this is no reason to be enemies that if we see each other we could be cordial. he said ok. but I reserve the right to change my mind about speaking to him and I chose not to for awhile

fast forward a month or so later he text me hey how are you doing....typical. I didn't respond. I don't like to be manipulated and I'm not on his time. I feel some kind of way toward him anyway because towards the end he was blowing me off which was not cool and pissed me off,I miss him but I don't like to be made to look like a fool.

the first time i seen him in 2 months I went into a venue to cancel a party that I was supposed to host he was there. when i pulled up he was talking to a woman a co-worker of ours(not mine anymore)the convo seemed really intimate. So inside I walked past him to the restroom and walked back out and he didn't say anything to me, but text me an hour later saying I could have spoke. HUH?! If he took the time to text me that what was wrong with his lips!?

and then I seen him again this sat at a party because he dj's after the party at around 230am he text me saying "hey". it kind of made me mad because he hadn't talked to me in over two months and doesn't know what I have going on to text me that late so I finally text him back and said "hello, and its late I can't talk goodnight."

so I guess the chase is over for him now that I gave in and text him back, but its not a game for me though. I still do have feelings for him that is why I keep my distance and I also want to show him how I deserve to be treated. I think he just wants to see if he can get me again.

the virgo I was dealing with our chemistry was great, his ego is crazy though. he's the kind that's caught up in the chase and not worried about the catch, he'll keep trying to talk to me not because he wants to actually speak with me but becuase when/if I speak back it strokes his ego and that's lame.

he would talk about how he's this and that (being overly confident), sometimes I wanted to ask him do you really believe this about yourself or are you just saying it? but the thing he doesn't understand about me is that I can see right through him, he's so transparent and when he stops talking I can look right into his eyes and see how vulnerable he is. I just let it alone because obviously he needs his faux confidence.

What do you all think?

Me: Sun Moon-LIbra, Mercury Venus Mars- Virgo, Rising-Sag

Him: Sun-Virgo, Moon-Cancer, Mercury-Libra, Venus-Leo, Mars-Sag, Rising-Scorp

wow! @unmatched good for you...are you a libra?

update about the virgo

Well the last time we spoke was Dec 21....I really just got tired of his back and forth and asked him striaght up what the deal was are you doing this or are you not because this "situation" doesn't benefit me you fly in whenever it suits you and I might as well fine someone new because this is stupid thats what i told him either you are gonna make time for me or not I said tell me right now the buck stops here....he says I don't have a GF and not looking for one and then goes on to say but now I hurt your feelinds and thats not cool...

Wow at this guy so i say to him what hurts my feelings is the fact that I brought this to you on several occasions that if you are not ok with the way things are now to let me know and I will show myself to the exit (giving him the benefit of the doubt here is his chance to not string me along and be straight up) I said to him I can't be mad about the way you feel but I gave you chances to tell me what you want, I told him that I have feelings for him and that it was obvious that he didn't share those feelings so it would be best to leave it here... I told him that this is no reason to be enemies that if we see each other we could be cordial. he said ok.

fast forward a month or so later actually this past saturday he text me hey how are you doing....typical I didn't respond. I don't like to be manipulated and I'm not on his time. So whatever If I see him out i will speak but what reason do we have to communicate over the phone? I feel some kind of way toward him anyway because towards the end he was blowing me off which was not cool and pissed me off,

Idk how I feel about him now I miss him but I don't like to be made to look like a fool. My motto is sort of like If you don't want me then don't talk to me.....but that's too much like right now isn't it?

except (SP) oops!

I met a guy the other day there was definitely chemistry between us, we got to talking and I found out his birthday is the same day as mine accept he is 2 years younger 10/6/86 and 10/6/83. Anyone have any experience with this???

Ok, I know this is over a month old but I finally talked to my virgo guy last Tuesday. I wasn't easy though, he came back into town on the 3rd but I drunk texted him the night before and the morning he text me back saying that he would be back into town that day he said it just like nothing had ever happened, like he hadn't been ignoring me for the past month.

So when he text me saying that he would be back in town I didn't respond I said hello and that was it, but he kept texting me. Basically we linked up and chilled a bit he was the one who brought up the subject of what happened he asked me why I acted like that he said nothing was even going on between he and that girl and I asked him why he ignored me for a whole month and he said initially he was pissed but I told him that I would text him asking how he was doing and he said he never got those text. We had fun talked and I thought things would be cool with us again and of course we were intimate.

I'm not a really clingy person I give people breaks so I let a couple of days go by before contacting him again but when I did he wasn't responsive. I get so tired of texting him and getting no reponse so I called him once he didn't answer I called him again this time he answered he said he was on the phone with his daughter and that he was sorry he didn't call me back but he would call me back. That was 2 days ago.

I texted and called him last night no response Whats gives!!~!!!! I'm am so frustrated with him I feel like he is playing games with me and I don't even understand why it is necessary. He is a 40 year old man for goodness sakes why can't we just be adults and speak our minds, if he thinks that I am taking things too far, further then he wants to go then WHY WHY WHY can't he just say that! I am soooo mad right now.

guys are jerks and he is the best at it.

No word from the Virgo yet......I hope the moment doesn't pass us by.

addictdtoriches - you are right I am in panic mode a little.....But we no longer work together. I was telling a co-worker at my current job about him.

I talked to my co-worker about the situation, she was the one who gave me the advice to maybe wait a few days then leave a voice message because it was more personal......this morning she wanted an update I told her about what happened; which was that he responded about sending my camera but had no response to anything else.....she says (she's a Virgo) its's really weird and kind of mean that he didn't respond to my apology or say that he even received my message. Now I feel like maybe he never really liked me and thinks the jig is up so just wants to get rid of me.

Honestly I just don't believe that he is that "hurt" by it, I don't believe it. I believe he just doesn't give a ....