If it was me I would say give him another change but do not just jump into was ever is given. Take it one day at a time and see how it goes. He may be the same but he my be worse or better just try and see for a while.
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RE: A re-lationship once very serious that lasted 6 yrs many yrs ag
RE: Message to GodFlesh
Godflesh I know everyone is asking you but I also need help if you can give it. I need to know how my finances and family life will be in the future starting on July 16th 2009 I have my own business with my husband and need to know will we struggle or prospure in all we do in life. My kids also how will they be and husbands dad will we be with him in india this year before anything happens to him. Thanks and if you need to email me derectly please let mme know.
RE: Mother Daughter Relationship Nightmare
Hi I am replying to your post. I also have a mother who drinks all the time and puts me down when she is drunk. She puts me down when she is not drunk. My family as a whole does the same so I can feel you pain in so many ways. I can not do anything right in the eyes of my family. I am using my husbands name but my name is Jessica and I married and asian indian. My family most of all my mom can not stand it because he is not white. I did not marry for skin color only for love and my husband is the best thing to ever happen to me. We have 2 girls and 1 on the way. I was told at the age of 13 that I would never have kids because I was hit by a car and spent 4 months in a coma. Any way my mom is very negative in everything. I am 31 and it took my 31st birthday to finally say I am done if she can not treat me the way I should be treated them I am done untill she can understand and learn why this happened. My kids do not need to be around this and I do not want my husband or myself around this. And as was said before that when inviting mother etc to your home she will find everything to put down that is true. My mom and sister and her 3 kids were almost on the street I took them in and she put everything down. .She put my kitchen the way she wanted and told me to get out and I told her mom you know I took you in so you did not get put on the street if you can not treat my home and me with respect I want you out. So she no longer said that but I had a freezer full of food and was pregnant at that time with my 4 year old my mom ate all my food and did not make sure me and my family ate what was ours to begine with. My mom is very stingy also. She has something you can go hungry she does not care. Before I met my husband i was 19 and my mom lived accross from the place I lived. I went to her because I had not food and ask her mom can I have food I do not have any and she told me know it was not her job to give me food . I told her I would have been able to get food if she did not take my money from me and she said to hell with you little bitch so for 3 weeks I starved because of her. I will never let my kids or anyone go thru that. I had a very hard life also so I know how it is. If this help please let me know just cut all ties with her wait for her to come to you. I hope I did not upset you and did give a little help.