Awe it sounds like you really did have good intentions and were taken advantage of. If this person cared enough things would take their time, but by pushing them and your not interested in the intentions suggested then stand your ground and let that person know where your coming from and that's that! YOU are worth it so say it! If this person cares enough things may slow, but if not then you know you've made the right decision. Good luck

My understanding of 'major bad things always wait for my birthday' is that wonderful 7th cycle we all go through about 30 days before our birthday. It's the last cycle and something always happens for example, you stub your toe really hard every year right before your birthday. Everything just appears major intense before the birthday and I think a lot of us allow ourselves to let the negative kinda slip in which causes more negatives to occur. So your looking back at all of your previous birthdays, keep a log! BUT this time around keep as positive as you can..allow no negatives to come through..we all get a lot sensitive too before our birthdays but I do know that if you just let it roll off like a duck you'll have a much better time before your birthday and during!

Goats are cool ..just remember with each number..there's always a positive. You were born ..that's a positive right? yes! So look for the positives, throw those negatives out!

Each day thanks is given to Astrology and that in knowing each person has a choice of direction to choose. With astrology we're given a heightened guidance to help attain the wonderful balance of spirit and mundane. I appreciate and give thanks to Astrologers for their hard work.