Hi Lynette,

I am a gemini too. And I have to say I agree with the sage advice you have recieved so far. First of all, LDR's are just plain tough,no matter what sun signs are involved. I am not the typical gemini in that I WANT things to last forever, and usually do take a man back when he flakes out on me (hurt the worst by Pisces and Libras!) and I must say: count the relationship experience for what it was, and read a valuable book called , He's Scared, She's Scared, about commitment phobias. It really made me see what I had been missing...but all the signs were there that my Libra (last relationship) was gonna run. Geminis may be flaky, ...but....anyone scared of commitment can be too. It can happen to anyone,anytime. Best of luck to you.

p.s. as a gemini, I REFUSE to date other geminis!

I have hinted to him I need romance, or some sort of gesture on his part if things are going to progress....but...yeah, he has a lot to deal with right now, and I told him I just dont feel like a priority for him...almost ready to throw in the towel.

Just wondering! From a gemini.

Hi,

I had posted to the forum about an Aquarius man with a leo rising, pisces moon....and i am a Gemini woman , gemini rising, scorpio moon. Now, we have come to realize there is a real cosmic connection...but we just don't seem to be able to find a way to meet yet (different towns) although we talk everyday for about 4 hours and sometimes til sunrise...Has Mercury been in retrograde or something? We have had ridiculous problems with our internet/messaging apps.

I don't get the feeling he is cheating on me whatsoever. I do get the feeling he is making sure beyond a shadow of a doubt that I am 'the one' ...he says I am his muse. What do you read into the delay, if anything?

You're right about bedroom topics. I have been cautiously flirtatious and he has been extremely gentlemanly (not asking for cleavage shots, etc) In fact, that was a deciding factor in my giving him my phone number; and he said that he was brought up to be respectful to women. Also...he is an ordained(but not practicing) minister. So obviously, the racy stuff won't happen casually.

I just feel like there was this real feeling of destiny to our finding each other.I would normally dismiss people saying that as having their head in the clouds, with a 'yeah, right' response. Have I been too jaded?

Hi, This is my first post to the forums..met a wonderful man online on a dating website and we have been talking nonstop it seems ever since. Here are some parameteres: He is an Aquarian with a Leo rising, and a moon on the cusp of Aq/Picses. I am a Gemini,Gemini rising, moon in Scorpio. WE felt we both have a rare cosmic connection, and it was like love at first sight....only we haven't met in person quite yet as he lives a little distance away . We can discuss almost any topic easily ...except he gets very shy when I get overtly flirty or try to go to bedroom topics, such as what would 'it' be like between us. I feel he is otherwise the most open and honest person and spiritual man I have ever met. We are in our forties, and have kids (which is why we are being slow about when we meet). My question I suppose is this:

is this THE ONE I have waited for? I have never been with an Aquarius. I know they are unusual in many ways. But we are both so bowled over by each other I can't stop gushing!!! Any insight or advice would be welcomed!