I recently told a guy that I have feelings for him and was told that the feeling is mutual. He's super affectionate towards me and always tells me that I make him feel better. Now he tells me he doesn't know what he wants, but that he's not using me. He said that his affections are true and that he means it when he kisses me. I'm lost.

I guess I want to know where this is going?! Or if his feelings aren't true? Should I wait it out or run?

AHH, thanks LeoLadyLove! I've learned in life to be a little more aggressive (I used to be very passive) and go after what I want, so that's what I've been wanting to do without scaring anyone away in the process. This was insightful.

Thanks newsl4ng, I guess I have heard that Taurus are very direct and this guy has NOT been. My friend said that he is super flighty all the time though. Which is fine, I've sort of just moved forward, I just didn't know if this was usual or not.

I understand the whole intoxicated hooking up thing, but I don't think that were his intentions... at least I hope not. He doesn't seem that way and knew the circumstances that night, there was a big group of people, and never tried to get with me other than holding my hand.

I appreciate your outlook, so thank you!

Hey guys, I recently met yet another Taurus guy and I'm wondering... is it normal for them to disappear if someone gets too close?

I met this guy, a friend of a friend, we instantly clicked and hung out a few times. Fast forward a bit-- one night, I don't know if he was just being nice or what, but we were all (friends) leaving the bar and he grabbed my hand and said 'so we don't get lost.' My guy friend got upset that we were holding hands, cause he likes me, but he didn't let go. So I moved my hand so we interlocked fingers to see what he would do, but he just continued to hold my hand until we got to the car. The rest of the night was fine, it wasn't weird or awkward, we continued our joking and talking... but now, any time we are all hanging out, he won't! I heard he does this a lot though. I guess I'm wondering if it was the situation or just typical Taurus/guy behavior.

Do Taurus like it when someone comes out and tells them you like them? Do they want more of a challenge? Is he even interested or just being friendly? I'm confused (obviously)!

Thanks!!

I have a few questions and I hope that someone reads them and can help me out! PLEASE.

So, now the Taurus guy truly believes he is in love with this girl he's known for LESS THAN TWO WEEKS. So I'm scared to put myself out there and ask if he wants to go out some time-- is now a bad time?

Also, I texted him last week asking if he wanted to hang out with me & some good friends and he ignored me-- is that a sign that he is actually not interested? I was thinking about asking him again to get together with mutual friends this Friday so we can get to know each other a little better. And from there, if no response, I'll let it go.

Sorry for all this, it's weighing on my mind and I haven't told many of our mutual friends yet just in case of disappointment. So if he rejects me, how do you guys get over rejection? 'Cause I have to see him a lot.

Thanks you guys!

Taurus7, I'm only vague because he is always after some girl, which I don't want to disrupt. I don't think he knows how to be alone...

For instance, now he is after yet ANOTHER girl, but the girl before her that he was pursuing is really upset, and I am upset too! Neither of them are good for him, either.

I just don't know when the right opportunity to snag him will be, if he is even interested at all.

I am getting super frustrated.

What to do, what to do?

So I think he's really into this one girl, but he doesn't even know her! Should I still give it a shot?

(sorry about all the questions!)

Great, thank you so much! Ha.

I'm nervous though, cause of the other girls he was after-- he might still like them?! More than me?

What is life without a little risk though, right?

Eep!

Thanks guys, like I said, I'M RUSTY!

TaurusFemmeFatale- thank you, thank you! I am also extremely shy. It's hard for me to know what to do at the right time, so I've tried to just be myself but it may have come across as not interested (cause of my shyness).

So do you guys think if I put myself out there a little more, he might get a better idea? If so, how would I go about doing that? Should I invite him out one night?

See, I am totally oblivious... I was always pursued!

Let me preface this with... ugh, I know, another relationship issue! I have only been in two relationships and both of them came to me (doing all the work) and one lasted over a year and the other was 6 years. I'm rusty and fairly new to the dating 'game'.

Ok, so, I am a Gemini woman. I'm supposed to be flighty, right? We'll this Taurus guy is more confusing and flighty than me!

We've been friends for a while now, but recently I have developed feelings for him (I've spoken about him briefly here before). He never really showed any signs of interest, so I forgot about him. As soon as I forgot about him, he payed more attention to me. He stares at me from across the room until we lock eyes, which gets me every time. Then he will say hello to just me, even though I'm standing in a group of mutual friends. I started thinking, 'hmm, what's going on here?!' There became more hugs, our conversations were always sincere and became more flirty-- then POOF, he told me he met a woman! She ended up using him and he was extremely upset and so I helped him through it. He and I started up that connection again... and then guess what? ANOTHER WOMEN came into his life! (I feel like he doesn't know how to be alone.)

Even typing this out I am thinking-- well obviously he doesn't like me because he likes these other women. But the optimism in me keeps holding on and tells me 'what if I'm not taking enough of a chance?' or 'What if I'm not putting myself out there enough?' Like I mentioned, totally unsure how to go about 'winning' a guy.

AstraAngel did a really awesome reading for me and mentioned we'd sooner or later have a strong spiritual connection, which we have started, it's just not fully... there! But what am I to do now? Continue to be friends? Move along in life?

Can I have a reading or just some plain old advice?

Sorry this is so lengthy.

Thanks guys.