Daliolite, your right. Sometimes, holding onto a child so tight can actually make them want to run but there are times when not holding tight enough can cause havoc on the family. It all depends on the situation, the child, the parents and the communication. No two families are alike. Trusting someone, that was far enough into drugs to steal for, is a very thin line. I truly feel for Sunnyone. Your're right, time will tell.