thanks so much all!!! He has recently been very "let me help around the house", let me help/do this and that for you ......lol, and I was happily surprised. As a taurus I can definitely appreciate a man that can help around the house but he has as of lately been VERY consistent in telling me and showing me how much he's happy around the house. funny cause i never pictured him as the sort....we were friends for a while and this other side of him is nice to discover. And I have ntocied how much he loves the consistency inemotions.....he seems to flourish under the consistent love.....dont we all??? lol