sorry, hadnt been on in a while as to how to approach her? Dont cringe.....call her once every three weeks or so. Leave a message, hey this is (your name) just wanted to see how all was going. Hope all is well. Talk to you soon......you almost have to throw it out there methodically .....every three/four weeks for I dont know 4 - 5 months or so.....to the point where she begins to go hey I havent heard from (your name). Then push it back to 5 - 6 weeks. then curiousity kicks in....why hasnt he called? hopefully by then she sees the predictability of your actions......and is then expecting something from you.....contact. It is a SLOWWWWW process to win over a hurt bull.....think the horse whisperer....lol. And you HAVE to keep yourself in control. All those self doubts will sabatoge you! I know your a virgo - arent you guys very methodical and analytical? use that for you.....not against you! And its a long process but you have to decide if she's really worth it first otherwise you'll tear yourself up waiting for someone that is going to take their time getting over their hurt and onto you. Good lucK!!!!

thanks so much all!!! He has recently been very "let me help around the house", let me help/do this and that for you ......lol, and I was happily surprised. As a taurus I can definitely appreciate a man that can help around the house but he has as of lately been VERY consistent in telling me and showing me how much he's happy around the house. funny cause i never pictured him as the sort....we were friends for a while and this other side of him is nice to discover. And I have ntocied how much he loves the consistency inemotions.....he seems to flourish under the consistent love.....dont we all??? lol

Thanks lilCrabby.....how are you in relationships then? If you dont mind me asking? He's not big on sharing emotions.....he's a gemini....but i was rather floored at the influx of info from his past. Any info is appreciated.

Does anyone have any insight with this particular placement? My man has venus in cancer and we just had a long convo about his previous gf and EVERYTHING that didnt go well with their relationship. Im kind of surprised at this as I thought cancer was a secretive sign of sorts.....well that combined with his scoprio moon made me assume that. And while I expected some info I got like front row seats to the past....... Insights anyone?

My ex is a Capricorn.....and he has very defined lines in who he has as freinds vs. dating/relationship/other extracurricular activity people....in his life. When they are your friend they put that above all else. The problem lies in the fact that if he's already slotted you as a friend getting him to think differently about that......and that in itself is tough. If you think taurus is stubborn you aint seen nothing yet. lol.....now I will tell you, when it is/was someone he couldnt have THEN he started to show an interest. Flirt with him let him know you're interested a bit then for lack of better words play hard to get. If he doesnt go after you then .....well, you may not have a chance at anything but for a while. Sorry I wish I had better news but based on what I know of the caps in my life.....eh it's going to be a bit of work! Good luck!

Mmmm at this point I'd say let him miss you. For one you want a real man, not someone you have to worry about being an a** whenever he feels like it. Know that you deserve the best that the universe can give you - believe it....if it's him (yes, he will remember you take no quarter when it comes to what you deserve, ie respect) and if it's not him then there is someone out there that will be exactly what you need. Take what you've learned from him (the good bad and ugly) and grow from it. Love is hard but Virgotarot is right - love yourself first, if you can do that truly do the best for yourself the rest will fall into place as it should. . .maybe not at the schedule you want but the way its supposed to for your life. Good luck!

Sorry to hear you're going through this. I've always heard that Scorpios will pull away/walk away/ break away when they truly start to love someone. But the tricky part is the person you're dealing with. Some see coming back for them as someone who passes their "test" and is worthy of them and then there are the ones that need to feel the seperation and come after you both guns blazing when they figure out how important you were to them. I dont have any great advice but just know that whichever way it plays out - is the way it's meant to be and there is undoubtedly something better in store for you......whether a reunion with this Scorpio or perhaps another love somewhere down the line. My best to you Asia118x!!

Well said Taurus7!

All taurus women seem regal somehow....at least all the ones I know. Kind of a quiet elegance....as for over thinking yes you are very much a cancer LOL.....its ok part of your charm Im sure. Uh no use it (the move) like "Im determined to be close to you even if it's just to suffer because I love you."

See love doesnt make you weak - it makes you fearless even when you see that you'll suffer in the process. Thats what makes us fall for those artsy types....they suffer completely within themselves and then find a way to express it and amaze us. Musicians, painters etc......they may "over feel" but find a way to express it that we can truly feel it. So she now needs to FEEL that you love her.....and truly love her for all the pain and whatnot you'll suffer.......besides you never know what life will bring you. Perhaps in the move you find someone that you didnt plan on meeting .......the hardest part is keeping your heart open to the possibilities .....all of them.

And for most taurus women.....if you're in the friend zone you're there until you can prove otherwise. As you all have a past she knows what there is to be found with you.....now you have to show her that there's more.....there's actually the man she fell in love with in there.

I'm going to agree with HappyDoc here - uh, actually if it was me I'd be thinking is he stalking me? And even if you are looking long term with her take it down a notch or ten. See when we're interested shy or not we'll respond just enough to keep you around, we'll answer phone calls and messages. And if she really thoguht of you as a friend there'd be no doubt that she'd have responded....we love our friends our TRUE friends. Now here's the hard part.....we taurus are very natural "flirts" not that we intend to be people misunderstand it..... we genuinely care ....about EVERYONE in some way. It doesnt imply we like you or want more with you it just is what it is....we care. Even if we'll never see you again - I've had people in the grocery store talk to me about personal things and then laugh saying they never intended to but I looked like I "understood "......I'd say that if you're serious about her head back to square one. Build a friendship with her.....a real one. Take it slow (with a Taurus it has to be REAL slow) earn her trust and then you take the chance about 6 months to a year out to see if you have a shot. LOL not very promising I know but honestly at this point it may be the only chance you have. ??? Good luck!