I am in the exact situation now! I am a cancer and was with my gemini boyfriend for a little over a year. it felt like I was doing all the work in a relationship, by work I mean planning things and pursuing him. He did well for a bit and then went back to the same. He was very affectionate when we were together, but did not have any problems with not calling me for a week or two and then just show up. He says he wants to be friends and still has yet to make a step towards that. Its been a month and a half since I have heard from him. I personally quit contacting him now, I think he likes the chase and knows that since I am more into commitment and stability he will just be able to come back when he is ready. I am a single mom and have no time for a man that comes and goes out of our lives as he pleases (he can go places but this is just telling me "cheater" and "liar"). I am very intelligent and when he jones' for conversation he calls me.. I guess the hurt is more that I put my heart into him and he can just walk away cold... but then again is he? or is he just not showing others his feelings. He was like that our whole relationship, its just the way he is. But, guess what? This is the way I am and I have been more willing to steps out of my "comforts" (thats what you do when you are in a serious relationship) but I am seeing it needs to be reciprocated. I think the guy personally is using you for his back up plan when other things do not works out. I have been moving on and just have this sense that he will be back. But being hot and cold whenever he feels like it is not okay. I do not care what sign you are.. learn some respect for the other person in the relationship and just other people in general.
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RE: WHATS WRONG WITH GEMINI MEN