So I have known this cancerian man for 1 year now and it has been (like connections with cancer men) a rollercoaster.
When we first met I had no idea he liked me. He came to my department to talk to me daily. When his birthday came around(4 days before mine) i bought him cupcakes. This led to him asking for my phone number. Long story short. We dated for two weeks and things ended because he tried to sleep with me. In his defense we had both been drinking but at the time i was upset( i had already expressed my disinterest in anything sexual to soon). I did stay the night but left coldly.
We ended up being friends for awhile. I met someone, and 3 months after he began showing interest in dating again. We went out to lunch at work a few times and for drinks once.. All platonic. I was in a long distance relationship but always faithful. Anyways, it didnt work out so pulled my interest back to cancer guy. By this time it was almost valentines day and i knew he would ask me out.. Nope!
I was hurt by this and it showed, as i to am a cancer.
Following valentines day i told him that i liked him via text. He never responded. He talked tp about work stuff but never spoke on my comment. Two days later i texted and told him if he just wanted to be friends that's fine but there was no need to be dramatic. He then said " we've always been friends". The next day he came to me and said " you over think to much and you get mad at me alot. Why?"
I told him " you're the same way and always moody"
He then said " only on Thursday (his busy days at work)" then said" i thought we agreed to just be friends?"
I said " okay then we're just friends"
I few days later he started back up flirting and giving me lots of attention. He has hinted at waiting to take me out for tge past 2 months! But hasn't. We made plans last weekend and cancelled due to having to take his family member out. It's been a year now and at this point I'm ready to give up. Is there hope for us? Should i be patient awhile longer or move on?