Thank you for your reply. You're right about a lot of things. I appreciate you taking your time to help me.
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RE: Captain - would you mind doing a reading for me please?
Oops I just noticed I said his birth year is 81. I meant 82. So, just to clarify, my birthdate is 8/18/1986 and his is 5/25/1982. Thanks!
Question for BlMoon, if you please?
I'm fairly new to the forums and, as they do with TheCaptain, people seem to come to you for advice. I see you seem to have some great advice and so I thought I would come to you with a question, if you don't mind. I hope I'm not being presumptuous!
Anyway, my question is (unsurprisingly, haha, if you look at my other posts) about a certain Gemini in my life. I've got some answers about his personality lately, but I thought you might be able to tell me in a bit more detail about the depth of his feelings for me. He and I have a rather confusing situation, in that he seems to want to be with me sometimes but not at others. I'd really like to know if he cares about me the way I care about him. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks!
RE: Gemini Man/Leo Woman - COMPLICATED! Help please?
Thanks for that! I do appreciate you posting that note (and thank you for the Gemini who wrote it, if you ever happen to read this!), He and I are very close, that much is consistent, even if he does say I do his head in haha. Actually that even makes more sense now that I've read the above note. Maybe he's having some trouble understanding me too. Well I want romance from him, it's true, but first and foremost we're friends, and I can deal with that. I'll just take things as they come and hopefully something good will come of it.
Thanks again everyone
Captain - would you mind doing a reading for me please?
Hello, I'm a bit new to the forums, but I saw that a lot of folks seem to come to you for advice and I wondered if you might be able to help me. I've posted about a certain Gemini in my life and the many different messages I get from him, and although I've decided to just play it by ear and see what happens, I wondered if you could tell me how compatible we really are. I'm 8/18/86 and he's 5/25/81. Any insight into the positives/negatives of our characters and how/if we would mesh together would be appreciated.
Thank you very much!
RE: Gemini Man/Leo Woman - COMPLICATED! Help please?
Thanks for the insight everyone. I think you're right. I'll definitely take things as they come. Right now he's the only person I'm interested in, but I'm still open to someone else should they come along. Glad to learn something about Geminis too!
Gemini Man/Leo Woman - COMPLICATED! Help please?
I don't know much about Geminis as I don't really have too much experience with them. I met a Gemini through a mutual friend online, we talked some and he (as I've heard is often the case) was amazing and sweet. I know part of it was the thrill of the chase as I was into someone at the time, and he "helped" me realize why it was a bad decision to continue on with that guy (which it really was). After a few months we met up when I happened to be vacationing in his neck of the woods. We had a week long thing where he told me he loved me, we decided to possibly give it a try with the long distance thing. Yeah no...that didn't work AT ALL.
After I got home we started arguing a lot, there was a lot of jealousies on both parts, misunderstandings, insecurities. After months of trying to make it work, we decided that long distance wasn't the right option for us but have stayed friends. I still care for him a lot and he still cares for me too.
The thing is what's been going on recently. We're still very much attracted to each other (the sex was great, I have to say) and I recently got accepted into a study abroad program which will put me in his area (I had planned on doing this before he and I got involved) in about 6 months time. We've made plans, he's expressed that he can't wait to see me, can't wait to spend time with me, can't wait to introduce me to his friends and family, etc. I've discussed my interest in possibly trying again, but he has a tendency to give off the little vague "We'll see what happens" comments.
He's very mixed messages, and I'm not sure what to think. After we split he started seeing someone else (not exclusively), but during that time he was telling me he couldn't get me out of his head and he would blow off time with her to talk to me on the phone or online. He still gets extremely jealous when I'm shown male attention (to the extent that he recently searched out the e-mail address of someone who pursued me and told them in a very articulate multi-paragraph e-mail that they don't deserve me), he still says he thinks about being with me long-term sometimes, he still is very much attracted to me, he loves nothing more than to talk to me. He shows that he cares in various ways (telling me things he doesn't tell others, doing things when I ask him to that he wouldn't normally do such as see a doctor which he HATES, being fiercely protective, giving me sweet compliments when I least expect it). But he's also said he's not "in love" with me, although he does love me, but that "he could see himself falling for me easily".
I'm not really putting my life on hold, I plan to see what happens when I study abroad, but it is a little annoying not knowing the true extent of the situation.
I have no freakin idea what to think here! Anyone care to shed some light on this crazy Gemini man? Or even just give some feedback. Whatever works