I was in a relationship with someone for 14 years while married (still am but my husband & I are more or roommates than spouses - for years). My lover & separated for 1 year and just as he got into another relationship (not sure if it's g/f or married to her -I get mixed feelings on this one), we found each other again and are back together (while he is still with this other woman & me in my forever unhappy marriage). We have strong feelings for each other as well as strong connection. He tells me & shows me how much he loves me & would rather be with me but has committed himself to this other woman. We live in different cities & therefore having a long distance relationship is not easy. We spoke on the phone & get intimate a few times a day. His other woman knows that there is someone else in his life, caught him on the phone being intimate with him & saw other proof & signs as well but seems like it doesn't bother her. When they come to my city, he tries very hard to come see me even if it's just for an hour or so. This happens usually every 2 weeks to a month.
Is there a future for my lover & I? Would we walk away from the "others" & start a new, happy life together? If this is to happen, how soon would it be? I am so much in love him that it feels like it will drive me insane.
My dob: March 1, 1963
My lover: Feb 16, 1956
husband: Nov. 15,1945
Other woman: don't know.
Could someone PLEASE do a reading & advise on my situation? I will totally appreciate it.