Hi everyone I am new to this forum today I'll try to explain this as best as I can..
First, before you read, I wasn't looking for an online hookup and I wasn't even looking for love at all I was on this dating site for quite awhile not expecting anything and BAMM comes this man.. I just felt something just looking at his photo, he also resembled an old friend of mine which also is on my mind..
Anyway, I decided to be on that site for friends first..
Almost 3 weeks ago this man contacted me through a message at plentyoffish. We started talking through messages and then on the IM for hours. We really liked each other and got along very well. He would send me messages about how much he liked me and so on. We were soon going to talk on the phone but he didn't call me and I asked him why and he said he got shy. We both had a MySpace page and he had all these women after him on there. He told me that there was nothing with them that they act like they own him. He then deleted a few of them. Now the other day he wrote me a message saying that he can't take the crap on myspace and he is just keeping it for his family only. He deleted me and that was it.
I can't write back to him on there because he has for friends only for messages to go through and now he has made his page private. He won't write me through email and he has his IM turned that I can't see him online but I know he is because in my contact addresses I can see his name lit up with the smiley face.
I don't know if I should try to email him or call him. I have his number but I was afraid to call just not knowing what to say.
We are adults, we aren't young, just wanted to let you know.
And I know this all seems like childish games. I am 38 and he is 45.
I am usually good at this but now I have no clue on what to do. I was thinking of sending him a poem or something but I don't think that would even work now.
No, if anyone asks he's not married, well as far as I know.. He showed me pics of his daughter and said he has 3 boys as well.. He said he is just looking for love and hope that I would consider him if I didn't want to be single anymore.. I know there was this one girl on his friend's list that has a crazy crush on him and he deleted her off his friends as well.. She tried contacting me for friend's request and I wouldn't answer her.. I finally couldn't take her tactics and I really told her off but he had her deleted before I did that..
I guess she ran to him and told him anyway eventhough he was not friend's with her on the myspace anymore.. She was very pushy with him.. I guess I have ruined it all on myself now?
My friends say leave it be don't bother with him or try to contact him at all and move on.. I just don't feel that way.. I don't give up easily without giving atleast one more shot, you know..
I am just back and forth for days wanting to write him then stop because I get afraid.. It is just so maddening..
He is a Libra, I am a Sag..