Hi All,

Wow!!! maybe its just me but seriously this last year has been a rollercoaster of emotion, change, stress, all areas of my life seem to be out of my control?

is this a scorpio thing at the moment, i really want to hear from other scorpios if you have been through alot recently.

love............well fell in love with....wait for it, lol 'a virgo' full on one moment, next disappeared, strangely he is a good friend and there for me but ultra judgemental of me seeing other men, only after he cheated on me with his ex.. then i find another virgo, again disappearing act, cant work them out

in oter areas of my life its been hell since early march, moved in with a so called friend, her boyfriend is abusive, iv been bullied, threatened all sorts im now with very little work, seriously depressed, trying to be strong, no family or much friends over here, seem to keep finding nasty people and im fed up with it, im usually bubbly, friendly and fun i feel lately no desire to try because it just all ends up down shit creek..

please fellow scorpios if you are going through tough times..? share?

thanx xx

chevelleman, yeah hear what you are sayin. I was very attracted, more than i have for a long time, it scared me a little and he picked up on that, emotionally we seem to be on exactly same wave length and i feel connected, he does too though tends to rationalise a little being a guy lol.

Its been a slow burn between us......

Jealous? no because i get the best of him without the complication and thats what i want, he knows this and accepts and has told me though he has just started dating he wants us to continue, i dont care if people are suspicious cos it feels right and he has begun to share alot more with me and open up, iv been very hurt b4 and he knows....

I have no idea what will happen, if anything but i value him cos he is always there to rely on and me for him

But yeah ideally it would be more, who knows?

Hi all,

happy new yrs

someone please help un confuse me, im scorpio, 25th oct, think i got libra rising but yeah have had a 6 month close friendshipw ith a great sag guy, there is attraction but somehow it turned from that to me completly needing him to be a close friend and he is closer than many of my female mates, i literally tell this guy my deepest darkest fears and i cant understand why? im soooo connected to him now but he has just started to date someone, yet our closeness remains, also just this last week an amazing sag guy 18th dec came into my life, hes a real go getter stands up for truth etc i admire him, bit of a fatal attraction thing goin on as well he started, i found out hes married but omg its like a moth to the flame..... help

WTF is wrong with these men........ im a straight talkin girl, im a scorpio i was born to suss out the bull shitters, lol.

so its been 5 damn days since said first meet up NOT DATE i dont do dates apparently neither does he? oh yeah thats why he started kissin my neck and giving me the softest kisses later on on first da... oops meet up!!!! i hate this shite, i want to know the deal. i want to scream at him how dare you take me unawares like that, make me feel stuff for you???WHY?????? i leave this sat 1st aug for 5 weeks away, whats the deal, i refuse to call, why did he tell me oh you know im not going to forget tonight, all bull? yep same as bloody everyone else... name beginms with J (jackass) lol been badly hurt b4 took him 4 yrs to get sorted, bla bla bla i dont know if i want a relationship bla bla AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAGH HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

God i sympathise, not knowing kills!!! im sort of in a hanging around situ with a cancer guy iv just met, though.... lol i havent heard from him in just 2 days, i dont know what to tell you, other than be careful, put YOURSELF first always, thogh if you have really stong feelings perhaps wait a little longer or as suggested send an email soon, but nothing more. Usually when we start to concentrate on ourselves our own lives and focusing on doing things that are good for us we get some perspective back, but hang on a while longer but also carry on with your life and enjoy planning things that will move you foward should it all not work out the way you hope, but im keeping my fingers crossed for you and him, ((hugs(((.

Aw thanks for those comments dalia, early early days..... quite weird cos we hav both been badly hurt b4 yet even though i always insisted i only wanted friendship just so i could go at a much slower pace, when he kissed me well all that went straight out the window, maybe i should not have allowed him to kiss me? yet it felt right to let him so who knows..... im seriously due some luck, lets hope we all are with our crazy men,lol

Hi all, just thought i should post here to say that i have now met the cancer man i have been emailing for nearly 6 weeks. We met last night in a little coastal village close to where i live, i was incredibly nervous, nearly left b4 he arrived, lol.... but it took him an hours driving to get to me and he was late cos he got lost, but very apologetic, when i first set eyes on him accross the road i just beamed, the rest of the night was kind of surreal, he was very understanding of me bein so nervous cos he knew he was the first guy iv agreed to meet since i split with scorpio boy 2 and a half months ago. So funny and talkative, i felt sparks....... in fact the spark thing was sooo strong it was almost palpable and i couldent look him in the eyes cos i knew i'd give the game away, but he gently touched my face and asked for some eye contact...... what can i say? lost...... it was a warm evening and we waked to the jetty and sat on the wall, i was jokin around and next thing he places the softest kiss on my neck? i pulled away, did'nt know what to think? is that normal for cancer men? then he kissed me.... again gently i had to respond, my heart was fluttering, its so confusing i mean its the first time iv ever met him and i go away to england to work for 5 weeks on the 1st aug? is that why hes being a bit foward? cos he knows im goin away? he left me home, then he actually said im going to kiss you now, in case your wondering what happens now, well damn that was one of the most feeling kisses iv experienced for a long time, i kissed back and found my hand around the back of his neck, god it was quite passionate....WHAT NOW??????? HELP!!!! he said what about a night out in the city i said i could be persuaded and left, today i get a text, its weird? just said nice meeting you last night and a jokey ref to a few random things that happened, its confusing!!!

Hi All,

I'm new iv been reading the posts on this forum for one week and found myself smiling and nodding in agreement to the confusion, frustration and the pull of those dammned cancer men.

Oh yeah just started emailing one 5 weeks ago, i played it cool, kept it light and jokey cos iv just come out of an explosive 6 month relationship with a scorpio guy, im scorpio through and through and boy did we have intense time but it ended very very badly and he nearly turned abusive and controlling, so im well rid, but sooo not over him.

Anyway back to said cancer guy, first i must say this........'those eyes' omg 'that smile' omg but im soooo not gonna fall for him, but its difficult, damn!!!!!

i spoke to him for the first time last night, im on a dating site but i dont go on dates???? i just end up makin friends with guys, weirdly...... get this EVERY guy i feel like i def get on with or makes me laugh or i feel good talkin too is a CANCER MAN, what is goin on? theres at least 4 interested in me? anyway this cancer guy iv been emailin i talked to him last nite, he so did not sound like i imagined he would, yet i was laughing and felt good talkin with him, apparently he really wants to meet me, im curious cos hes different or seems to be, i told him STRICTLY mates cos im gettin over someone, but then keeps tellin me how hot i am, course i just ignore it, but secretly love that, oh dear...........i sense trouble ahead, lol