Rchi Many thanks this is amazing !! although it may not make sense to you it does to me!
the situation is very messed up!! my love of 8 years left for another ! he has an alcohol problem ( only hurting and against himself) and i think, is with this girl because she too has a problem and also does not understand (yet) the extent of his problem !! he knows he MUST stop for good but is not yet ready and ended up, although he loved me and told me so each day, not like me for (nagging and encouraging him to quit). as many people tell me he has to hit rock bottom before he will get help maybe this is what he is doing ? This woman is after something and dont think she wants more than a UK passport but ........ this is his problem !! I am trying to move on although I cannot believe the man i was with for 8 years is the same one who lied to me, about wanting to get back together, for the last year and is still lying ! ( well not any more as i will not speak to him! ) .
For the moment we go our seperate ways but maybe if he gets help and some Therapy there MIGHT be some hope for us again in the future as we definatly had a very very strong bond once!
Many many thanks, the cards and you got it spot on and i did not "understand" the same reading from my book ! xx Susie