You would not be here here asking these questions if he was truly the one. While he cares for you he is keeping you on the back burner as a back up plan. the fact is he has stated he does not want a relationship while he is fully aware of your involvement , and when he finds someone more interesting he will remind you he told you he did not want to be involved . Because you are dating and have been intimate does not mean he views this as a relationship...shocking but true of the way some men think. Be brave at the risk of losing something unfulfilling and tell him this does not work as you are looking for a relationship with someone who wants that too . Supporting him is like saying that this situation is ok , while you are secrectly hoping this will become something. Things did not change when you slept with him did it? , there's your answer ? , this will only lead to more heatache if you do not say what you want , and may still lead to that .Either way you will know and pick up the pieces and find someone who wants what you want and is prepared to take a chance on love . "To thine own self be true" and stop wasting your precious life on an emotionally unavailable man . I wish you the best.
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RE: Libra lady in love with a Scorpio man
Need advice on a recent connection
I have been divorced for ten years with one love relationship in between six years ago. I recently met a very loving man who was very attentive who said he was looking for a long term connection ,he was bad about calling and this lead to me being angry and hurt ,however the relationship continued , and the last time we spoke was fine but he has not called me in over five days , I do not want to chase him if he is no longer interested , and I want to move on but my heart just aches for me which is ridiculous given that it was not that long of a courtship.Should I contact him? , or should I see if he will contact me? .My biggest fear is I might be in love with him , which is why I am so miserable. I date often and am considered attractive , so it not like he is the first one that came along, any advice would help thanks.
RE: What does my future hold with this connection
Everthing happens for a reason , maybe the relationship you have has lost it's sparkle , and this person gives you a chance to communicate thoughts you would not share with your significant other , however it may be time to move on and find a new love.While opposites attract ...like minded stay together , all the opposites are in the divorce stats we see on a daily basis. Sorana