Thank you for being so supportive! Update: I emailed him: asking who he took. He said a woman, did I have a problem w/that? I emailed: yes, I do have a prob w/that and I think you want me to have a problem with it. I feel like I protect the relationship by not getting to close to other guys. I feel like I don't know the rules of our relationship and they change when it suits you. I also wrote It has seemed like to me he is pushing me away, punishing me, and being passive-aggressive. Then I asked Do you want to see other people?
So as you can see I am direct. I don't blame Cancer men:) I try not to blame but I am direct and I am NOT interested in games. I am prepared for him to say he wants to see other women or he'll act all, "What are you talking about?" which will open dialogue to the other issues he's been ignoring. I figure no matter how it goes - I win. I will find out if he's playing games and move on. He will want to see others and I will move on. Or both of us will make an effort to rebuild if we can. I will not stay with him if I don't get satisfaction in the discussion.
Thank you all again!