You've been on and off again with your boyfriend. So, he knows that the joy he feels when he is with you could be fleeting. When you are apart he practices restraint and self-control (doesn't call you, doesn't want to feel dependant on the relationship) so in the event you are "off again" he will know how to emotionally accept it. It's difficult to show steady emotions when the ground is constantly shifting below your feet.

One of my best male friends was born on March 1st, and my brother is February 28...they are just alike. They are ultra sensitive, and perceive slights and blows where none may exist. They are deep thinkers, and though they appear very calm on the surface - they are focused on your every word, and will replay your words over and over in their heads. Usually the only way I know that I’ve hurt their feelings is because they become non-responsive to my emails, texts, etc. When they are deeply hurt (as in finally getting up the courage to tell you how they feel, and not receiving a positive response), they need to retreat for a bit and regroup. However, they are not grudge holders. You have to write to him/call him and explain your past behavior and your present feelings for him...don't talk in circles. Don't leave any room for interpretation. You'll have to put your airy Aquarius-ness aside for awhile and communicate your feelings to him, like you're a Taurus – calmly and direct A Pisces man is not going to willingly set himself up for another emotional blow; he needs to feel reassured that you know what you want...this time.

I'm sorry. It seems as though he was making preparations to leave...could you not use the debit card because then you would have seen an excessively high balance? Was he putting money away? Opened a new account? Hidden cell phone, well we all know there's only one reason to do that. Setting up a PO Box, so he can start routing his mail there, before he leaves? None of it sounds good saydee. Seems like you caught him midway through his plans.