Hello, I am not a cancer, but I am in love with this guy who is. For a moment I thought this was the same guy. lol. My guy will invite me out and we have a great time and then he disappears for days, weeks and even months. When I confront him about his behavior, he either emails me back saying he is too busy or going through some tough times or just plain and simple ignores me. My guy was also married for several years and is divorced. Your guy sounds like he really loves you because you share a close bond, he gets jealous and he doesn't want to lose you. this is very promising, but maybe he has issues such as fear, jealousy, controlling, fear of falling in love again and getting hurt and as a result, it causes him to distance when things start getting too intense. this is the same thing that I am thinking about mine. For your cancer and mine, I think they get overwhelmed by that word relationship. These cancers love spending time with you and living the moment, and then they stay stuck in their cave. I don't know about you but when they finally come out they expect you to be waiting for them. By the time mine comes out of his cave, I am already so pissed off that I don't want to talk to him. I guess they want to be left alone when they pull away.. Good luck.

Hi, I really enjoyed reading your blog. I am asking myself the same question too. Why are cancer men so confusing? It's funny because I have never been into astrology but for some reason out of curiosity I clicked here and got an account and then have been reading about caner men since I have been in love with one for over two years now. They tend to withdraw, give mixed signals, you go out with them and they have a good time with you and then they magically disappear for weeks and even months. What's up with that? For example, I personally don't have time for games. My advice to you is to hang on. Your guy sounds more promising than mine. And based on what your psychic told you, there is the possibility of a serious relationship and marriage.Give him time and space to sort out his confusion but not too long either because in case he keeps stringing you along, then go out there and find yourself someone that will love you like you deserve. Best of Luck! As for my cancer, I had to cut him off for good....

Thank you all for the wonderful advice on Cancer. I am also in love with one and he tends to go through periods of withdrawal. For example, he will call me and invite me out. We go out and have a great time and then I don't hear from him again in months or who knows in how long. We have been in this pattern on and off for over a year now. He doesn't like confrontation so if I ask him why this and why that he just ignores me or tells me he is very busy. just a bunch of excuses. so I have decided to cut him off from my life for good and this time is for sure. I am a libra.

Hello, I think that she already loves you and after 14 years she knows who you are by now. You need to be honest with her. Most women appreciate that. If you not honest and you guys get married and later she discovers that you kept a big secret from her then she will be very hurt and then you will probably end up losing her. So my advice is to tell her the truth. She might be hurt and upset for a few days but deep down inside she will be glad you did. Best of Luck.

Hello, I agree with the posting above. I think it has a lot to do with energies. Have you ever been in such a positive mood and feeling like today is the day that I am going to accomplish this and that and then you walk into the office and you feel different. Why? Because other people's negative energies are already affecting you. This has happened to me before with the same person on more than one occasion. I am feeling great and then boom I feel really down the entire afternoon. Energies....

Hello Bob, Sorry to hear about the pain you are going through. I think that the first thing you should do is seek professional help. I know that a lot of guys don't like the idea but this is the best thing for you since anyone would feel traumatized after such a terrible experience. Secondly, you should change your number, emails or block her... get away from anyone who is connected to her in any way. There is no such thing as friendship even if she gets down on her knees and cries. the damage is done already. Also, on your days off from work or after work try to keep yourself busy whether it is working out, join a karate class or simply go to the beach and meditate. Anything that can get your mind off of her. And remember time heals all wounds... Best of luck.

Hi Maria, After reading your blog on the Cancer Man and He is Confusing Part II, I went ahead and signed up just to reply. lol. Anyhow, this guy sounds like the same exact guy that I used to date and also born under the same sign. Your guy's behavior is similar to how mine was. I do agree with someone who replied to your blog saying that he acts like that because he knows he has you. Isn't it incredible how men act once they think they have us where they want? Well, as for me, I had to be strong and just walk away from this relationship because it was really stressing me out. I was very much in love with him and he didn't believe that I would change my number and not even tell him. I did send him an email saying that we weren't going to see each other again and I was following through with it. No response from him. Well, I think you should either email him telling him what you are planning on doing or just disappear and disconnect without letting him know. the second sounds like a good revenge for the way he has been treating you. And remember: We are valuable, special and loved. We don't need to put up with any guy's bad treatment. Best of Luck.