Ur not stupid...you were in love...

I was not the cause of the breakup of her parents. THey were already apart.

thank you all

Thank you all so much. I haven't met the daughter...she wants no part of me right now. He did finally set her down and tell her she needed to get used to the fact that he was with someone else. He told me he loves me more than life and that he and I are going to be fine, and his daughter will come around eventually. I certainly hope so

He realizes that she is manipulating him and that she has control. Neither one of us know how to get it back. He has spent the past 2 days with her. Just trying to have a couple of good days, so she knows that he is still there for her, even though he doesn't live with her. I'm hoping they resolve some things. She knows about me, he told her he is in love with me, but I haven't met her.

The latest stunt is she said she wouldn't travel with him to see her cousin graduate from high school. THey had been planning this trip for about a month. She knew how important it was to him. I thought it was awesome that they were going to spend some time together doing a short trip. She just knows how to hurt him and it is very difficult to keep a positive attitude about her when she is so mean to the man I'm in love with.

So, yes we have talked about it. He feels extremely guilty about the divorce and has a difficult time being tough on her. When she cancelled the trip with him it was the first time I had ever seen him angry at her. I hope he puts his foot down. I haven't heard from him since yesterday afternoon because they are spending time together...just have to see I suppose...

Thank you. I think once she goes away to college, it will be easier for him. I have a daughter myself, and she loves him. I haven't met his daughter, she wants nothing to do with me. I know he loves me, just wish he was a little tougher with her.

I feel as though I have found the love of my life. He loves me too, tells me all the time how much he loves. Has said how good I am for him, and he loves me more than life. However, recently, his 17 year old daughter has done a very good job of sabatoging any plans we have with little "i need daddy breakdowns" . I feel selfish, but then again I also feel like she is completely manipulating him and she just breaks his heart over and over again. She runs a terrible guilt trip on him every time she sees him.

Will she convince him to go back? He is an amazing dad, and I respect his need for time with her, but I feel like she is doing her best to destroy what we have. Am I crazy?

thank you all so much. last night he asked me to come to his office and we just sat and talked for awhile. it was really nice. supposed to see him again tonight...hope so...

He had to cancel our date tonight. Has to work. Had some issues with his daughter last night and went in late this morning. I just can't get a break!

My gut tells me he is genuine and I want to open up to him...just scared like I said before

Can anyone give me some guidance in regards to a new man I am seeing? He is 10 years older than me...super sweet. I am just so hesitant, i don't want to get hurt...i just couldn't handle it right now.

His name is Marty, and he seems to be awesome, but I have found out that looks can be very decieving...

Libras...

we never had money trouble...unless he does and I don't know about it, but I don't think so...he is very frugal.

I thought we were falling in love, but then he pulled back and asked for time to figure out what he was feeling. I haven't spoken to him in a week. What do you suggest I do?