Captain, I am so glad I came across this. Thank you for posting it. It does help some. However, I had some questions I thought maybe you could help me with. I've been in an on again off again relationship for a number of years now, and while I do believe I love this person, there are times when I question the relationship. There have also been times when I've stated out loud, even to other people, that I know this person is no good for me because of personality traits that seem a bit controlling. We are from different states, a pretty good distance apart and wouldn't have even known about each other had it not been for the internet and certain circumstances. The way we met led me to believe (at first) that we were meant to find each other because we were soul mates yet there are times when I wonder about this as well. I am currently in a situation with this relationship where I'm not sure what to do. I really hate giving too much information out in an open forum this way which is why I'm being so vague (and hoping that you can still help without many many details). If the vagueness makes it too difficult to give advice, I will happily email you if given your email address or give you mine if there is some way I can delete the post containing it immediately after you've received it. Anyway, what I was wondering about is simply this: if there are times I question this relationship and actually believe that it would be better to end things, then why is it there are other times when I feel like being with this person is just so simply amazing? Why am I so confused? And if I truly need/want to walk away, why can't I?
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