Wow! That really got some attention!
I would like to first start by apologizing to the members of this site and the people who run it.
Well I could probly write a book at this point based on my experience over the last couple years dealing with this. I would just like people to see there is much more then just a one sided story here. I want to also thank shatz for your thought on things, I think you give some very good advice. I feel bad its had to come to something like this. I figured maybe some input from others could help. Things are no better between us now then it was the day she discovered I had a gf. Funny thing is we were split up and living apart for almost a year. Things were fine when I was single, I could see my child whenever pretty much. Things were somewhat ok between us. We didn't really talk a lot but when we did it wasn't usually bad. Anyway the day she found out about my gf, she called my phone and left a rather nasty message. Since then its been bad. This was a year and a half ago, since then its been emails and phone messages, texts...We are finally divorced now as well, not only have things not improved its gotten worse. I was planning to post the messages that she sent to my phone tonite, but out of respect for the members here I will not post it. I will say that it was not nice lol. Lots of naughty words in it too. Pretty much the two main things she was saying was to leave my gf, and that if I wanted her to leave me alone then I need to just leave my childs life. Thats sad that she would rather our child grow up without his father in his life all because she can't deal with her feelings about me. She was the one who said to me that she found someone else and so I moved out and then on. I do not have any feelings of love for her. I had to let go a long time ago. There was still some feelings for a while, but after all the bad that has played out. I just don't have it anymore. She did tell me that she still has some sort of love for me and no where in the conversation did I say I love you. Nor did I agree to anything relating to love. There are many things i'd like to reply to thats been said on this forum but that would take way too long plus i'm sure no one wants to read all that anyway. I guess my main reason for being here is the hope that somehow she will find a way to realize that our time is done we are divorced. I'm not required to share every detail of my personal life with her, or jump everytime she yells. Life is to short for all this drama.