yes i think it is somewhat typical for cancers.......just different levels for diferent people. i myself am a cancer....and for my friends(especially female friends for some reason) i will drop everything and do what i can to help,and if my help doesnt work then i feel like a complete failure. my true weakness as a cancer though is that i try to treat all kids like they are my own.......i will do anything it takes to make kids happy.......just the way i have always been. cancers are nurturers.........its our design.....so dont feel alone

i would like to first start off by sayin hi.....im new here....and now to my problem.i have been with this woman for 5 yrs. when we first got together i really thought i loved her......but the last couple of years i havent. she refuses to get a job...over takes her nedicines to get stoned...and is just down right lazy. my problem is that she has 3 kids 7,10,14.......and i love them dearly.....they even consider me their father......i cant leave them,im afraid if i do that they will not get takin care of or that their mother will get into worse drugs and get them takin away from her. i cant stand to think of something happening to them.what do i do......i am at a complete loss here.......and apreciate anyones advice