Dear Sweet D 47,
I would like a reading as well..my bday 11/24/1981 his 12/31/1980. I will take the good and the bad.
Wow!!! Spot on! I am usually all about the physical, and I sooo feel the passion in me about to explode. Every guy that I've recently talked to have all been so open about it. Its a complete turn off!! They were beginning to get extremely obscene and dirty which begin to scare me. I'm so appreciative for your insight because it was driving me CRAZY!! As for me and cappy, it's time to be honest and let it go. I believe i'm too much for him. After years of knowing him I felt like it would be easier. WRONG!! He still cant pull his weight as far as the physical and dont get me started with the emotional. We are partners in business together, I hope removing me from our situation dosent hurt the business and chemistry we have.:( Thanks again for all your words.
I wanted to know about my vibes at this time. While usually I am always in a relationship, I havent been in one in over a year:( Sadly, I do want one, but lately I keep attracting guys that "supposedly" say they love me, and in the next breath say that they, "dont have the heart for a relationship". (Normally after they say this, i just move on) Obviously, it's something with committment, but I just want to get to know them to see if I even want the relationship. The cappy guy I'm talking to now, says the same thing, yet tells me he loves me daily, but sometimes I dont feel the love. He's so on and off with me (on when i'm ignoring him, off when i show love)...yet still calls and ties me on the phone for hours talking about his inner feelings..I want this to stop. what vibes am i putting out to him?? His bday is 12/31/1980 and mine 11/24/1981..what vibes am I getting from him? please help because im ready to move on.
I do believe that I only choose these type of people so different from me, because honestly speaking I lack those strong parts so much. Although Im responsible, Im not ever 100% about anything in my life. Not with guys, work, love, or even my career. I have no discipline, and rarely care if I have too walk away from a situation .( hell i probably did'nt want to be there in the beginning, in my mind i may have thought it would be fun??) Having all the disciplined nature of the grounded signs around me allows me to not ever make a choice. They can be stuck, while I can be free. Although I do stay in situations, and stay with loser friends, they all are still on speed dial. I believe this is because, we dont want to be lonely, but we never really love or care for others as much as we would want in return. As open as our hearts are, we are still very insecure, untrusting and indecisive about whats good for us. I dont believe its because we are looking for perfection. I believe its what would hurt a normal person could kill a saggie, so we choose to not open ourselves to that and live above as free as a bird.
Hope this helps someone, Reading the other post have surely helped me.
Dead on!...lol..Although im only 28, that character lived in me up until my last guy (libra) that just hurt me too the core. Ive left my past in the past and i havent ever looked back. I keep myself so busy with positive things for myself, like school, gym, and positive affirmations. The only thing as a saggie that I do differently from the rest of the saggies, is that when im done, IM DONE!!!!! i wouldnt even speak to you if I saw you in public. Who cares what you think? You had your chance!! I tell any guy that Ive been with and it dosent work to lose my number. ( which obviously to the losers i date sounds like a plea for them to keep bothering me..ugghh!!) I finally just stop answering the phone or just block there numbers. This could be because my moon is in scorpio?? i would rather everything to dissapear or ill remove myself from the situation so that you wont ever hear from me again..EVER!! lol...def. scorpio. Ive been single now for a year, and im finally ok with this. When I am interested in guys its usually the ones that are grounded (cappys, virgo, and taurus). I know all boring but i love there responsible, dominant character:)...i like a cappy now (dec. 31, 1980) and myself (nov. 24, 1981). He teaches me patience and i HATE IT!!! but i need it in my life...I wonder if we even go together?? i still love him though and as long as he knows it im ok with that.
Glad I could finally hear from fellow saggies!!!
Please take your time hon, im in no rush:)..i understand how it is to be busy and i sorda enjoy always having my mind stimulated as well..and yes leaving the libra has been the best decision of my life!! Ive gained love in all forms:) Once again take your time, and i so appreciate it:)
Havent spoken with you in a long time, hope everything is going well for you though:)..I know the the topic title is leo and cap, but ive gotten rid of my lying , cheating, libra FOR GOOD..lol..and i opened my eyes to an amazing capricorn..ive worked part-time with him for almost 2 years and never wanted to cross the bridge in fear of everything being messed up..I took a chance and kissed him, he kissed back a couple of times(i know he enjoys it, and so do I:)..There's senuality with me and him and I cant put my finger on it. The lastime we talked i let him know that i didnt want this to be a sexual thing, and he let me know that he did'nt have the heart for a relationship because he puts his all into it. I took that at face value, but i still cant stop thinking of him. I have'nt called or textd, because that isn't my personality, so we will go 4 days or so, than a text or call from him..He textd a day ago and asked really dumb questions that i was confused about for hours..lol..im a sagscorpio so i always overthink everything..I wanted to know if you could give any insight from our birthdays 11/24/1981 and his 12/31/1980..He's told me he cares for me and loves me but i don't want to overthink those words..plz help.
Thanks in advance. Shinyluv.
Hi paige and shatz,
Im a saggie girl but i did want to chime in alittle bit. @ paige, when he said, "he needed to get his ducks in a row", he just needs time to decide if your the right one for him. Luckily he's very blunt, upfront and honest so he wont keep you there if he wasnt even slightly interested. We love talking to people, but will ONLY hang on the phone with someone we like:)..so thats a good thing. I will say unfortunetly it is his call to make a move and decide to be serious, in which the waiting time can be awful, but well worth it in the end. We hate being pushed into a decision, and we will run without words or explanation. From what your saying though everything sounds good, just from time to time send a text or email letting him know that your thinking of him and it will always put a smile on his face. Best of luck, and hope this helps:)
Sorry Captain, i was trying to write a post and couldnt find the page..tehe..Captain there is truth in professionally getting took..Im a part-time entertainer and Ive always felt he's been short changing me. I know i wont be with him for long thankfully, and i always feel," whatever you do unto me, will be done unto you." I would like to know though. I've talked to 4 guys recently, (all different guys, not friends of each other, different races and jobs) . i've not ever been bad in my relationship life or just meeting people but not one of them have contacted me longer than a week. Two of them I thought I had alot of chemistry with, especially the last one and nothing?? Maybe a text or two and I would text back and no answer, from 4 DIFFERENT GUYS??? Please tell me what vibes i'm putting out for these guys because I have'nt ever dealt with this, it's sooo new to me:(
Thanks Captain, i really do appreciate it. Right now I feel as if every man is decieving me, so i've cut myself off completely from even trying to date because im still trying to heal from a person that didnt ever deserve me. Luckily though there is "NO" money involved....lol.., just my ego and broken heart. Thanks again:)
Anytime:) ...i do realize that time heals all wounds, and that there are some wounds that have literally been WIDE open for years, so i do understand your side as well. I just didnt want to comment on your post and sound bitter, and hurt because at the end of the day, "it is, what it is"! Wishing you the best of luck in life, love, and business. Stay blessed:)
@ Flowsco, honey you remind me so much of myself just probably a different situation, but i can feel the uncertainty in your words when you write about your Libra guy. For whatever reason I seem to attract libras male and females so quickly, and they always seem too attach themselves to me and trust me instantly. (Maybe because im ALL TRUTH, even when it hurts, and I will NOT EVER change or dumb down my feelings FOR ANYONE). I was with my Libra guy for 5 years on/off and he's been with another girl for 6 years on/off...(yeah exactly she was out of state most of the time, and NO i didnt know this until recently). My Libra txt, called, or I'd be at his place almost everyday. We've always had a fun time together whether it was me and him alone or a room full of people. If i had a question to ask or felt like i freakin wanted to argue with him, I DID and his arse was still there after 5 years and always said, "He appreciated me speaking my mind, and that if i did'nt like something...lol..you are gonna know it"!!! A womans heart knows when, "SOMETHING" aint right, and for all these years i tried to keep passing it off and ignoring it, until the "EXOTIC DANCER" moves into his place for the last couple of months and the person thats been there is back burner (myself). He was doing a balancing act on his scales..(i know its corny) but true. Im sure he told both of US that he loved US, missed US, and was always thinking about US..I argued and told him i would'nt be #2 for anyone, that he could be with her and ill heal in my own time. His reply was, " I'm not letting you go", " Your perfect for me, no flaws, great personality, loyal,...etc..etc..This man would take me shopping and give me the other womans money ONLY to keep me around. I wont lie, it worked for a month or two, because i was still living on his words, our genuine friendship and love that we had for each other. I completly cut everything off and moved on from this relationship, and he still tries to txt and call even till today ( the best way to get over a libra i might add, plus it hurts them to disconnect and change ther plans so quickly.....O WELL, im hurt too.)
I know that was prob the longest story ever,..sorry:)..but what i'm trying to say is that when a Libra is smitten... (or any male for that matter) they show it. If your every chasing a libra, in the nicest words possible, they don't want you. Not that they don't like to chase, they'll only chase what they really want, or (with there indecesive arses) , think they want. They are very flirty, to EVERYONE!! Your guy sounds like he wants you as friend and nothing more. He has you to keep texting him because he dose'nt want to hurt your feelings and dose'nt want to completly cut you off, (in fear that he may need you one day for s.e.x, love, compassion, or just a friend)..Flowsco, somedays when i was on that back burner, I would hurt my head crying, trying to understand where his feelings went..at the end of the day he was never 100% to me, and he KNEW and I KNEW that i deserved better. Libras have a HARRD time making decisions and sometimes you have to be the stable one and decide yourself to move. You sound like an AWESOME person and I've read some of your post so I know you care for this guy, its just a matter of time before you make your own decision and really see the truth...lol..it took me 5 years.
(i will apologize now if i offended anyone in this message, im not trying to hurt feelings or anyones zodiac sign or preference, im just being an honest sag to what i read and stating my opinion..dont want to piss anyone off:)
I see your situation all to well.. and i will say i'm sorry. My bestgirlfriend and my buddy for 5 years are libras, and not to offend anyone here THEY ARE CONFUSED????...and yes indecisive about everything!!!! They want so bad to be in a great relationship and can only pick the losers because there "trying to be nice to everybody"!! In the nicest way possible , "DONT WASTE YOUR TIME"!! She will only want you back when you ignore her and seem to be moving on and doing great in your life, "ITS ALL ABOUT THE CHASE FOR THEM"!!! All the beauty and almost no heart...Im so not trying to be mean because i love and care for my libras, but at the end of the day being immature about alot of things isn't as cute as you thought it was a few weeks, months, or years, ago when you met them. She wont ever understand you or be on your level, Scorpios are deep thinkers and very intelligent, looking for depth in a woman...libras are fun, loving, with lots of sex appeal, but the heart and mind of a young girl...im a sag/scorpio and im just honest, i will apologize now if it offends anyone.
You being lonely and hurt, has nothing to do with being negative and mean to good people on this forum. I once was told a spiritual demon or negative force will attach itself to the people that feed it...STOP FEEDING YOUR DEMONS!!!!!! Ive met some great people on this forum and whether im asking advice myself, or just reading some of the honest and genuine posts of The Captain, Soapmaker, Leoscorpio, and i even laugh at alot of Flowsco remarks( lol..some of the things you say are so well put together and still honest and loving). You don't need a psychic, medium, or at this point maybe even good friends ( if you treat them in the same negative way), what you really need is prayer and to be connected from your heart into your spiritual life. Then maybe you could here the answers that are being told to you by not only people here, but even ( and be honest) what your OWN heart is telling you..I wish the best for you and hope at some point you find confidence in yourself and your life.