Hi im a Leo too !...leo sun, leo rising and leo moon.. lol ! I definitely have a sunny side and my sense of humour is wicked. I dont like to be the centre of attention as I actually do have a shy side (honest I do! ) as well as a bossy pain in the butt side lol ! I do care about people and will protect my family and friends fiercely if need be. I work with the public as a psychic medium and give tarot readings and healing. I have recently started to do part time care work for a local company and i do really care about the vulnerable people I look after. i am fiercely in dependent to the point of not asking for help even if I need it.....god that leo pride is a killer !! over all I have a lot of lovely friends so hopefully im too bad ! xx

hi honey,

well I think that sealaskalady and dalia are right. This guy has a commitment phobia, he wants his cake and eat it !! You allow him to waltz in and out of your life as he pleases because you care about him but I feel he is abusing that. I too have been there and done that and I reckon if he was going to commit he would have done it by now. This has been going on for some time but you have to remember, you also have a life and are worth alot more than someone who actually offers you very little. I think its time to find yourself someone a little more mature and less selfish, you sound like a very kind and giving person so, save yourself for someone who will appreciate you for your worth. 'Friend' fine, boyfriend...no, hes not ready and you have a life to live. Lots of Light to you, shimana xx

Hi darya,

Yes Amethyst is a spiritual stone but it is also well known as a natural tranquilizer. many people use this for sleep disorders and have said that it does improve your sleep pattern. It is very benificial for the mind, either stimulating or calming. The main thing is that your son finds peace of mind enough to get some sleep. I also believe that habit plays a big part. This means retraining the body and brain to a better sleep pattern as its learnt that night time is the time to be up and about. I wish you both well darya, let us know if he gets any improvement. lots of Love& Light to you, shimana xx

WOW ...Its very interesting to read how all of us interpret the hanged man ! This reinforces my earlier post about the tarot. We are all individuals and none of the above are 'text book' answers. All of us using our own intuition to interpret the card as we see/feel it. What is right for one is not necessarily right for another. I enjoyed reading the different view points,

L&L, shimana x

Hi all, I think this site is a good idea too. I have been reading the tarot for many years and would like to add the following.

A good tarot reading depends greatly on the reader themselves. By all means use a book to get you started and give you the basic meanings of the tarot but once you have those, may i suggest you put the book away. No single person is a text book reading. We are all individuals and therefore text books dont apply. A truly good reading depends on the ability of the reader to interpret those cards. Tarot are merely a tool though I have to say a very useful one. As a clairvoyant medium, my psychic abilities and guides are what give a truly good reading. Most importantly, familiarise yourself with the cards, perhaps starting with the major arcana if you find the whole deck too much to start with. Rememeber, practice makes perfect so practice alot !! lol Love & Liight, shimana xx

Thanks chick,

any idea how you edit a reply ? i did reply to one and it looks like ive put something I havent...just four little stars where a word should be lol ! oh well, never mind. Didnt know there was a forum on here, been getting my daily horoscopes sent for quite some time, just didnt realise there was this place ! Anyway, im off to bed, night, and hope to speak to u and others soon, Love & Light, shimana x

Hi Darya,

I suffered with seeing spirit when I was a young child and it scared the hell out of me ! I sympathise greatly with your son. Its only as I got older I came to realise its the living we need to be scared of not the dead. Your son has a unique gift but at his age its v frightening for him. Crystals can be of great help. Try placing a large amethyst in his room bye his bedside, it can help with sleeping more soundly. What a lovely reply from tyson, I think thats a lovely way to close down your chakras as a young child. The fact he asks for archangel michael is wonderful...bless him. I feel he starts to worry before he even gets in bed ! Maybe a hot milky drink before bed would also help to calm him and help him sleep more soundly.

Lots of Love, shimana

Hi Gabryska,

The hanged man in a tarot spread usually indicates a situation that is in ' limbo '. Its known as the self- sacrifice card. This often indicates we are holding onto something that isnt always very good for us. That a relationship or situation we are in, needs to be let go of in order to move forward towards something better. Often with this card we are reluctant to do so hence the 'limbo' situation. Its not an easy choice to make but in order to move things forward it is necessary. Hope thats helped,

Love & Light, shimana

Hi there, sorry think I just introduced myself on the wrong bit below !!!....well apart from being scatty lol ! I have read the tarot for many years. I use the rider waite (originally the 'rider') cards. The first pack I bought when I was nineteen, many moons ago ! I have seen spirit since a young child and its always been a part of my life I have never questioned. I have lived in spain for quite a few years giving psychic tarot readings and healing. I returned last year to uk although I still go over to spain to my home there and give readings to my regulars ! I love all things spiritual and crystals etc. Looking forward to chatting to you all,

Love & Light, shimana

Hi all, have been receiveing horoscopes and other stuff off Tarot.com for some time then finally realised there was a forum lol ! so, here I am, look forward to chatting to you,

Love & Light, shimana