I live in Florida, I just don't get on until later in the afternoon. I just finished sending you an email :-))
LOL, I hear you, I need to proof read my posts also, I come across as an illiterate,lol
Thank you LL, I'll get about sending you a message soon. I have some more questions about crystals to ask you and I'd like to just get to know you because you seem like a nice person. Thank you as well, MadQueen, that seems like a good way to clean the deck that can be used on a regular basis to keep the deck in tune. Much more cost efficient than buying a new deck every time I do a reading too,lol
To both Janice and LibrasLair, well there was information for you in the last post too. Thank you for the advice about the crystals. I'd have to order them online and I don't have much money but at this point anythings worth a shot. The winter drains me terribly and my illness hasn't been helping. I have IBS, a tumor on my hand, bronchitis that doesn't want to go away, etc..,etc.., Gees, I feel like such a kvetch, but hey, it's usually me listening to everyone else's problems and no one listening to mine. I thank you all for caring, not only about my original question but you seem so kind. I'm not used to being on the receiving end of it. You know what? It feels nice? lol
@Janece, you're very correct about my friend. She has low self esteem and she'll find the biggest losers and convince herself that she loves them, who knows, maybe she does but they always end up using her for what they can get and then running for the hills. She doesn't seem to grasp the concept the concept of subtlety,lol She has Fibromyalgia also and as she reads cards as well, she should know that when I'm feeling bad I can't get a clear reading, but apparently it's good enough for her....,I think she's addicted to readings!! I've told her a zillion times to be patient and wait for someone who's worthy but she doesn't want Mr. Right, she wants Mr. Right NOW!! She calls upon several people for readings daily, one of whom is way worse off than I am, she has severe diabetes that's not under control and a house full of crazy people (literally) living with her. She considers herself to be a spiritual person, an empath, and she says that she helps people, that's what she does. Well, if she's helping anyone it's the loser men she seems to find in abundance!!! She'll say that she can feel how badly that I'm feeling but it's never stopped her from asking for a reading. I guess I feel like she's one of those pain in the rear family members, she makes me crazy, but I still love her so a lot of the blame is on me. What's the saying? No one can take advantage of you without your permission? That's me, I guess. I think that we both are in need of some spiritual cleansing, Reike, right? I know that I could use it!!! Thank you for your prayers and your advice. I'll remember to call upon the angels
next time I do a reading. I've never been able to get a clear one on myself, well actually I was told that I wasn't supposed to try, that's why I come on here,lol
Hi LibrasLair, she lives up state from me so she only calls me on the phone, and I've tried to tell her that as nicely as I can that her moods are hard for me deal with especially when I'm sick. I have Fibromyalgia and last year I had undiagnosed gastrointestinal problem that I honestly though was going to be the death of me. I was nauseous ALL of the time and I lost over twenty pounds which I can't afford to loose. I was going to see specialist almost every week and she was STILL calling a few times a day to fret about man problems!! I had doctors telling me that they had to rush tests because my weight was so low that I might die but she didn't see anything wrong with calling me up any time of the day to ask me to do readings on her revolving men. We've been friends for over 10 years, so I don't want to lose her her but honestly, how do you tell someone like that you can't handle them? lol She's a oood friend in most other respects and she's there for me when I need her, usually, but she doesn't take a hint, hell, she doesn't even take an outright no, it's like beating a dead horse!! I'd have to burn a smudge stick over her for crying out loud,lol
I had to order the white sage because we don't have any new age stores where I live, I got some sweet grass as well because one of my Native American friend told me that when I cleansed my house I should use the white sage smudge stick to rid my house (and my deck) of bad energy and then burn the sweet grass to bring in good energy. I had another friend tell me to expose the cards to direct moonlight for a number of days, so you weren't off about exposing them to nature, although with the frequency that my friend asks for reading I want to throw them in the swamp in my back lot,lol
I think that I'll probably have to get another deck that I won't use for her, I love her to death but I really get tired of being asked the same question 3 times a day, especially when I'm sick,lol
LOL, yeah MariaRia, it's a crazy story but it's true, true, true,lol!! I told him yesterday that I was typing on a forum where gals were complaining about what a pain in the butt there Cancer mates were and he thought it was funny. He reminded me that even though he didn't SAY I love you often,I knew that he loved me and our boys (cats, we don't have children) with all of his heart and that he was loyal and a very good provider...., all true.
Keeping in mind some of things 2knowmeis2love said, my husband and I have a lot little inside jokes that, though not necessarily romantic, are special to us. I've never had a boyfriend who was so playful in that way so it really is a kinda special thing that we have. I was pretty young when we got married and though I had dated a lot I never dated anyone who was so playful in that way. He has a great sense of humor and that's part of the glue that keeps us together. Also as far being real, my Cancer can't stand games or phony people so being yourself, always a good bit of advice, is a must with a Cancer. Since we've known each other more than half of my life (wow, it's almost scary when I think about it that way,lol), he knows me as well as I know myself, especially since we started out as friends. Oh, he also told me that he had a crush on me all those years we were neighbors, could have fooled me,lol I was flipping through an astrology book and it said that a Leo/Cancer pairing was as enjoyable as a life sentence in prison, I guess I need to go write a letter now!
My husband was my neighbor when we were in college and we became the best of friends, we dated other people but spent a lot of time hanging out with each other and the rest of the other people on our block. He went with me to visit my mom one weekend and SHE decided that we should get married.At the time we thought it was a good laugh so we went and got a license, kept drinking and two days later I had a hangover and a husband. I never wanted to get married, to anyone and neither did he and he's told me that our surprise wedding was the only way he could ever envision himself having gotten married and that I'm the only person he could ever be married to. He's not real big on the declarations of love and other romantic gestures but at least he gives me credit for putting up with him,lol
I have a friend who calls and asks for a reading almost everyday. It's almost always the same question, she just has rotating players. I've been really sick for quite some time and I'm finding it difficult to get clear readings. I know that you're not supposed to do the cards when you're not feeling well but she's SO persistent!! I'm having a hard time getting accurate readings now and I know that my deck needs to be cleansed. Any ideas? They would be much appreciated!!