Should I be worried? I'm a scorpio female seeing a capricorn male. 7 yrs my senior. It started with just good long conversations about any and everything. When we met we both just got out of emotionally draining relationships. We both strive for personal space being we didn't have it in our relationships. We opted at being friends with benefits. Now, that a year has passed we seem inseperable to anyone that knows us. It's as if you can't get one without the other. Being a scorpio my friend status is ready to fade away (impatient), but my gut says wait a while. I've been getting the wifey treatement just no title. Does this mean I have now made a comfortable situation for him in which I would never benefit?

I have been knowing this guy since I was 7yrs old. Best friends since we were 14&15 & started our relationship at 16 & 17. Now at 20yrs this Scorpio fem has some real different, twisted views on pleasure. I'm curious whats the freakiest episode this dynamic duo has conjured. lol They say some Scorpio women wish they could have been born men subconsciously. I know I damn sure do! Just so I could live as fairly as men do! But back to the matter at hand, some Leo men are into analingus pleasures. Licking and rubbing their anal. Well as far as me and mine we have elevated a bit much past that. I'm curious about this pair because I pray in my heart he will never need a man for the job. Excuse my frankness but I just wanted to know if there are any other couples under this sign that go over the edge. We are very different from the norm and I enjoy it just as much as he does. Scorpios are known for their ulterior motive the one no one can quite figure out. I just hope I'm not his cover up! See I had bisexual tendencies, but everything works out for me because I get to do all those things to him. Anyone else familiar with this, PLEASE RESPOND!

I have been knowing this guy since I was 7yrs old. Best friends since we were 14&15 & started our relationship at 16 & 17. Now at 20yrs this Scorpio fem has some real different, twisted views on pleasure. I'm curious whats the freakiest episode this dynamic duo has conjured. lol They say some Scorpio women wish they could have been born men subconsciously. I know I damn sure do! Just so I could live as fairly as men do! But back to the matter at hand, some Leo men are into analingus pleasures. Licking and rubbing their anal. Well as far as me and mine we have elevated a bit much past that. I'm curious about this pair because I pray in my heart he will never need a man for the job. Excuse my frankness but I just wanted to know if there are any other couples under this sign that go over the edge. We are very different from the norm and I enjoy it just as much as he does. Scorpios are known for their ulterior motive the one no one can quite figure out. I just hope I'm not his cover up! See I had bisexual tendencies, but everything works out for me because I get to do all those things to him. Anyone else familiar with this, PLEASE RESPOND!

Dear Sweette1398,

I'm a Scorpio with Aries rising and moon in Scorpio. I find with my mom being a Virgo it is impossible for us to see eye to eye because she is sooooo overbearing and we are both stubborn. Because she is mom I understand she means well, but it is her nature as a Virgo to be very criticizing which doesn't help at all with my sarcastic tongue. We always hit a speed bump no matter how long it may seem like we were cruising. It's like Virgos know how to make us tick like no other sign if they know us well enough. Scorpios feel the need to be in control we run if it feels like that person is going to cause a problem with our logic which is a business mind over an emotional one. Most Scorpios want that balanced. We are very emotional people by nature so we NEED someone that brings that out in personal endeavors but also can manage when we are wrapped up in a work project. Don't push anymore you have made yourself available. If he can't appreciate to h-e- double-l with him!

Mccreadyv and Lisaisbabygirl0, thanx so much for responding. I wasn't sure I would get any. At best our friendship is logic over nature. Knowing that nature will take its course eventually. Thank you for all insight concerning this matter and I will continue to be patient. I always try not to impose any of my emotions and allow our friendship to remain a great one. I guess it works because I know I like solitude also and when we are together boy is it intense. We are not a PDA type so it works in both our favor. I'm still working on giving my ears just as much time as my mouth. lol Being I'm very into my work and school I'm not all that time consuming, so I hope that works out in my favor. We both seem to be business oriented. Business before pleasure. Since we are both young and came from pratically nothing we are both setting up security and hopefully be able to bask in the fruits of our labor together!

With respects and thanx to and your higher power.

Myself 11/19/88 and he 1/6/82

In awe of the mystery that unfolds when with him, appreciating my space when given, but hate for him to take his. It feels like he needs too much space. (possessive scorp) I just need free time to write and stimulate my mind, he needs it to be an entertainer. If you haven't noticed they love to keep female friends. Not that I'm insecure, I just feel like why can't we all be friends if you all are "just friends" Knowing they will still be more his friends than my friends. I am very secretive and he is too. I don't ask questions because I don't like to get asked if you know what I mean. I have nothing to hide just hate explaining myself to people for fear I'm giving them control over me. Too much information is deadly, and being he is just as analytical as I am it feels like he's just picking me apart. One minute we are all wrapped up acting madly in love and in the blink of an eye we are just friends as far as eveyone is concerned. We are both in our twenties and I'm wondering if that has anything to do with us not wanting to put a label on our friendship calling it more or less than what it is.

We've been seeing each other for well over a year and for him to say he has trust issues and confiding in women he seems to do pretty good job with me. Problem is scorpio gets such bad rep and he expects the worst from everyone and allows their actions to tell him otherwise. I'm used to being all or nothing. I'm trying to be patient because I've learned so much from him in this time and I just want him to see what I see. He always says I'm the only one that really listens to him and concerned with his well being and yet in still I can't seem to get a committment. We are always together but we are "just friends". It's starting to feel superficial, like only in my mind. Does true love exist or is he a figment of my imagination?

I really can relate to what you shared. Everyday is like an epiphany for me. People don't have enough passion for me these days. They do things for the love of money solely. Because who doesn't love money? I don't pride myself on it though. Difference! I work with kids because I love their energy and creativity. I also try my best to embed good morals in their head. Due to the demographics of NYC I try to help them see past the darkness in their homes and neigborhoods for their future will be only what they make it! Changing one heart at a time! We have eveything we need because the ones before us had less!!!! It's all about how you utilze what you have. My mom is a virgo and very cynical! Always told me I'm a user. I see it this way we all do at one point of time or another in a variety of ways. Its the way of the world. Why not take all the good one has to offer and use ut to better yourself?????????!!!!!

I agree with you Synthia! As a scorpio fem with my moon in aries and rising and scorpio one may say I'm a scorpio to the tee! At 20yrs of age I find myself in the midst of one of my biggest transitions! No longer holding onto emotinal baggage and giving myself the opportunity to accept all that has happened good and bad because it all served a purpose! 'A wise man learns from a fools' mistakes!" "Your loss, is my gain!" "I can show you, better than I can tell you!" Just a few quotes that keep me goin........

Life to me is the game of chess in short. Everything is a sacrifice, (gain or loss) it is a matter of how you set it up and when you are willing to let go. The queen has the most moves on the board as to where the king only has one. All other pieces are used to protect those main two. Play a game of chess with a person and you will see how they value life by how quick they make decisions, what other things they put at risk by being greedy and if their defense is any good.

I was in a relationship with a Leo for about 4yrs now & the emotional rollercoasters we have been on, OMG!!!! I love the man to a tee, but the clingyness I could no longer stand.

It's one thing to be in love but dayuum! Can I breathe? It got to the point I felt the clingyness was due to trust issues and who needs that because I'm so grand in spirit and he being the total opposite of a egotistical Leo (maybe we would mesh better) he's sooooo insecure.

I find my magnet attracts capricorns, for they are mysterious in nature like ourselves, are alluring and self teachers and talk about the strageist?!