Wow...Thats unexpected. Normally Cappies don't cheat on their mates. Sweetheart, your first mistake was getting involved with a married man. If he hasn't left his wife, he won't. There is a thing called carma and you are bringing down a house of pain for yourself if you don't get out now. Not only are you hurting yourself you are hurting his wife and his children and he obviously doesn't care who is hurt as long as he has his cake and eats it too. Unfortunatly cappies are centered on their feelings before others and sometimes get confused about what is right for others and what is right for them. They despiratly want to do what is best for others but they do it baseed on their needs rather than the one the are trying to do right by. He is doing what he believes is right by his wife and kids and there will be no changing his veiw on this. You are wasting your time and what you have to offer on a man who will never appriciate you. Move on you will be happier