Hi all I'm totally depressed on a real low and I actually find it impossible to sleep which I

don't think helps , So first thing today I will be getting a windchime for my bedroom so thank you so much for that tip

also, using the front door as a refrence to find the far right corner of my home , do I need to face the door or have my back to the front door as if I was walking in the house

kind regards shaz

Marc , yes that's what I ment you just put it better , hope I have not

upset anyone as I do agree it's very sad to loose a friend

or someone we know , I get sad to hear of others losing

loved ones , and I can appreciate what you say regarding it being

detrimental to ourselves I spend too much time allowing others to affect

me BUT I'm learning to be more alert to negative feelings that we get and

absorbe this site really does teach me more about myself and help me see

things differently ,

And again appologies if I've offended x

regards and love shaz

It's over if you want it to be and when you want it to be

a mans a man at the end of the day and Geminis are horrid

lol so you deciede , so what if he comes back it's you who

says ya or nah ain't it x

Hi Hun no I really don't think this is a final good bye

I've dated , well actually I've lived with a Gemini

for the last 6 yrs . Hell he's come and gone more

times than I care to remember each time it's

for real bla bla bla . To be honest it's destroyed

me , however back to your question they not

looking for something better it must be the split

personality ( crazy and even crazier) don't know

what they doing half the time so don't take it

personal and good luck xx shaz