dnnmre,
Wow i see its just not me! Libra men are Jerk's! I'm Virgo with a Gem moon and AS he had a Virgo moon let me tell you DAMN!!!!!not only was he always placing the blame on me and everyone else. He is still to this day not changed one bit! But I did! I was lost in a relationship and i am not an easily bullied person, but that Libra could sure get at my goat! I learned a lot from that relationship about who i was what i was doing with my life! When it comes down to it this is your life and if your sitting there wondering if a man who left you for another women that made you lose your house, and then kept telling you things to hurt you is ever going to come back ? WHO CARES he's a big boy and you have been there for 13yrs too long for his problem! Its everybody's responsibility to take care of them self, but if you keep trying to bury yourself in codependent relationships you will never learn anything about yourself! People are not hard to understand men or women we are people we are just so busy worrying about what they are not doing for us we aren't listening! If you always look for the negative thats what you will always find, then again if you stick your head in the sand and pretend everything is alright that's just as bad!( dnnmre ) I might not be the wises women in the world, but i sure am not about to waste my life on someone who couldn't careless about me! This man you talk of is no good no matter how long you were together you have to write it off! Your life is happening RIGHT NOW!! Everything you have ever wanted and wanted to do for YOU should be all you care about ! things happen when you aren't looking and that is usually when your the most ready for them!!
I hope that you have a blessed and loving road ahead and that you always keep smiling everyday because its beautiful out there!
i agree with alot of what everyone is saying on this form i just wanted to state my opinion too!