This explains why I'm not that emotional anymore.....OMG!!!! I'm not a CANCER anymore, although I love my nurturing side.
I still need more explanation on this, kinda confusing and people in general will not easily accept the change.
I am very sorry for what you are going through, it really hurts I know. I'm with a guy with the same attitude, not all the time because they can be very sweet and loving as well, maybe because they are Aquarius?....Same here, I love my guy and been with him for about 10 years, yet there are times that I just want to be separated from him. I think we are on the same both, not very easy, I feel for you.
Try to enjoy the Holidays.
thank you for your insight, it is very well said, i see you do some reading as well, will you read for me please? i was not like this at all, i was a very positive and outgoing person till i met this guy when we moved overseas, never believed in love at first sight but definitely it happened to me and it totally changed the way i am and yes i am married to a wonderful guy, was not expecting this at all and did not want it to begin with, but the reality is he really got me and i'm trying very hard not to think about him cause i do not want to regret things later on, like what you have said it can be just physical that will only last for 6 months. another problem is i know he likes me too and he is trying his best himself, there is no way for us to avoid each other cause he is my husbands colleague, we see each other occasionally.
Would you please share with me, how did you able to let go of it?....... it is not easy for me yet i'm really trying, as much as i do not want o communicate with him, we are still talking and texting in a friendly manner but we both knew that is not what we want, the situation is not very easy....frustrating....sigh
thank you so much for your concern, i'm doing ok.....some days i have my moments, i always bear in mind about the captain's advise and doing the very best i can to deal with huge changes in my life. it is hard not to have my friends around me to talk to face to face and get a big hug in the end like i used to.
i'm very thankful for people like you who has the time to read and understand my situation.
have you been in the same situation before? sounds like it....
have a nice day!
Thank you very much Captain. Truly appreciate your responses and it is helping me so much emotionally and psychologically. I do not think a lot people realise how sensitive Cancer signs are. Glad to have someone who listens....again, a MILLION THANKS to you!
Now, I'm starting to to have a thought why this Virgo guy is still single and never been married for his age. His birthday is 09/18/1958. And you are right on your thought about him because it already happened while we were still seeing each other. Truly, I'm starting to heal.
Thank you very much Captain, I will do my very best to forget all about him. I promise myself and I'm starting today.. Would you be kind enough to give me some readings 06/23/1972 and also my husband 01/23/1955.
I will continue reading your blog, I'm one of your follower
A lot of people need someone like you, I believe it.
Thank you for your reply. Can you please tell me what are the best ways to let go , the situation is more complicated than it seemed to be, Virgo liked me too, we had some intimate moments, no s** , and we both knew it was wrong but we were and still are attracted to each other. He is a colleague of my husband and I cannot simply avoid some of the social events where we see each other, I'd rather not see him or hear anything about him, I know this helped me on some relationship I had in the past (when I was single). This is the first time I had an affair and I do not like the aftermath of it, very exhausting mentally and emotionally. I want to be back being myself again. But the reality is I'm addicted to him. His silence is killing me but when we see each other socially, he can look at me liked there is no other people in the room
I'm so selfish but I can't help it. I want everything, you are right again about my current relationship, I love my husband yet it does not stop me from wanting Virgo. Bottom line is, It is a huge problem LETTING GO how I feel about him whether it is LUST or LOVE FANTASY. I know for a fact that even we end up being together, we will not last. Thank you for listening, you have no idea how this is helping me, I'm dealing with a change as well, we moved to China from the US and I do not have anyone to share how I feel without thinking they will just judge me and will not understand my dilemma. Again, really glad to find you here....you are helping a LOST soul......tremendously!
I'm a HUGE fan of yours. You are right I'm with someone else but the realtionship I had with the Virgo guy was real, I said was because we are now trying not to continue this since it is not going anywhere, reading some of your topics helps me a lot specially the "LIVING IN THE MOMENT". It is not easy Captain, if you have more advise you can share with me, would definitely take it, I'm a cancer, it is hard for me to let go. I do not want to regret things someday, I have someone who truly love and care for me deeply.
Tell me I'm just infatuated by this guy and it is not truly LOVE. I'm lost and in a dilemma. When we stop seeing each othe,things became all gray to me. Please.....give me more insight, I desperately need them. I can be more open if you have any other questions. I need someone who will not judge me, my own emotion is my greatest enemy. Thank you in advance, very happy to find you here.
I'm crazy about my VIRGO guy, although I'm having a hard time handling him, he is hard to read, moody, can be bossy yet I'm soooo in love with him. He works hard and have a good heart. Big flirt and I dont think he realized that I get jealous. He is very organized and clean which I love as well. I wrote down all the pros and cons in our relationship and for some reason I always think it is not going to work after a long run. Please give me some advise, anyone with a VIRGO man? Please share to me what you've got, I'm desperately in love with him and I want it to work.Oh I forgot, he is not very good in communication.