if you'd like to talk to me. this is my aim.
aim - sexdctr6
From what i see, don't get offended in anyway, i am just speaking from my view. Yes, true love is all we humans seek. We all want to experience it, and to have it for life. Like you have stated, you have already been married for 9 years, and made your vows. You have said to your partner "I DO" and i'm sure till death due us part. I've always seen it as, when you make these vows, you stick to them. I'm not sure how you could even explain this situation to your kids. "Hi loved ones, i just wanted to let you know i found my true soulmate, i hope you are happy for me?" It just seems really cruel if you left someone who's been with you for 9 years, when everything is as good as you've told it to be. From what i heard, you said the guy was the person you gave your virginity to? Then you also mentioned your husband being good in bed, or at least that's what i got from you saying you only felt passion when in bed. And like "Learningtarot" said, don't go jumping into a fire. And going back to what dalia said now, you've been stable for 9 years, why ruin it. Do you really want to hurt those who love you the most? The man who spent 9 years of marriage with you, and your kids? Love isn't a game, it's life. and the decisions you make are crucial, especially in your case. If you just want to experience your ex-lover in bed, tell your husband.
hey there bella,
I know your pain to an extent, but not all men are like that. I understand the part of playing the friend and taking in all their emotions, and maybe even then you fall for them. Because you feel you 2 really have something for eachother, and then something like that happens. I've seen it happen to others before, and it has happened to me. It really sucks i know, to care for a person truly, and then get mislead to thinking there can be more, but then they toss you away like trash the next second expecting you to be fine with it. Because after all, "you're a friend, you should be there for eachother." Believe me, i sense what you're going through.
If you'd like to talk, my aim is sexdctr6