Posts made by septvirgogirl

This is a reply to Adventurous Cancer.

Well i'm a Virgo born September 8th with Cancer rising.

I was with a Aries man born April 4th for about 7 years.

And I also have dated two other Aries men.

So i had relationships with three Aries men in my life so far, so i can relate.

First let's start with the Aries man i have been with for 7 years.

Our sex life together was great, but I ended my relationship with him in 2007 because i was so tired of his impulsive behavior and taking life day by day and refusing to take certain things serioulsy and him refusing to get more serious with me. I always felt we were on two different levels regarding responsibility.

And today he still calls me to try too rekindle our relationship and claims he has met and dated other woman but he stills feels that he has this connection with me and still loves me.

I feel he loves my Virgo/Cancer traits.....

sexy but yet classy, attentive but not clingy, social but yet a homebody, loyal but hard to get.

And the two other Aries men,... i dated them in the end of 2007 and in 2008.

One was born March 29th and one was born April 5th

The Aries born March 29th was very nice to me and sweet but was jealous and wasn't very honest with me. Our attraction levels were out of this world!

But I found out he didn't like to be with just one woman at a time.....so our realtionship ended badly when his other woman found out about me.

The other Aries man i dated was born April 5th he was very nice to me and was very considerate and would come to me whenever i called, but when he didn't get his way with me or i didn't give in too what he wanted, he became very mean to me, so i stooped seeing him. But to this day, he also still calls me and wants to rekindle our relationship.

All i know,

I found out these Aries men were aggresive, impulsive jealous and wanted me to be their pretty little doll in a box up on a shelf, but yet, they wanted to do their own thing.

Instead of complaining and nagging,

I bodly told all these Aries men,...... you want to do what you want, so i do what i want and seeing i have to come in first place and refuse to come second place to all your other woman in your lives, the other women need to go away or your chances with me again is dead!

And when you decide to sort out your lives and do all of thee above.........

that's when you can give me a call!!!

And for some strange reason this method works with these Aries men because i've noticed at first they get mad and will hang up on me to punish me. But yet they will stay away from me when their doing something bad because they feel ashamed if i found out.

And i notice when i don't pay attention to them, they come back to me, telling me what they have done to win me back and want to prove to me they have changed.

If Aries men know your onto all their lieing and their little tricks and don't give into them and act weak. Aries men will become the man you want if you show them you have a no tolerance for impulsive childlish reckless unfaithful behavior!

And if you have a stubborn disipline confident nature like i do, they will love love love the challenge!!!

RACHEL

I say i'm a true Virgo.

I was born on Sept 8th with a rising sign in Cancer and moon sign in Sagittarius. I say i'm a great listener without any judgement. All my friends call me for advice regarding their problems. (They say there is this "trust thing" they feel with me.)

I also have to make lists for everything, to make sure i don't run out of anything, and i catch myself paying bills in advance. I think i do these things, to avoid the nervous thing that goes on with Virgo's when things go wrong and don't run smoothly.

I also notice with my Cancer rising , i live in the past, i save things from the past and can't stay mad at people for long and i love to cook and bake.

And with my moon in Sagittarius i'm a social butterfly who loves the night life and doesn't like to feel grown up sometimes and hates hates hates rules and boundries especially in relationships.

I also notice, for some strange reason i attract many ARIES men! (Three Aries men so far!)

I'm no longer with them due to impulsive bad behavior, but i continued to only be friends with them, but they STILL continue to want to rekindle our relationship!

These Aries men still seem to be drawn to me don't know why?

(So If there are any ARIES men out there who likes Virgo's please comment!)

I do like Aries men, I guess because they keep me on my toes and i keep them on their toes too! I don't give in easily and i'm not clingy due to my confidence.

RACHEL