@Totitoti - thanks for the uplifting spirit. I have been concentrating on me and trying to push him out of my mind. Unfortunately I've not been too successful with it and keep thinking of what could have been. Still nothing from him after his last text to me. I'm assuming he's gone forever, and maybe never really cared in the first place...

@Selenite - happy new year, and thank you for the reply! I havent talked to the Virgo man in a month now. After I mentioned I was interested in him, he made it sound like he was only looking for friendship so I havent talked to him since then. I'd love to have an updated reading on where things are headed with my love life, especially since I dont think that the Virgo man will reach back out again for any romantic communication.

Hello All - I've been stalking this thread for a couple of months, really trying to read through all 400+ pages. I got to page 100 and then gave up, honestly. LOL! I wanted to share my story and get some feedback. Sorry for the long post...

I met this Virgo man (Libra Moon, Libra Venus) via a University online program back in October - we were in the same group for one of our classes. I'm a Scorpio (Libra Moon, Virgo Venus) and gave him my number toward the end of the class, and we started texting almost daily (his initiation). I knew, reading from many websites, that Virgos move very slow. So I wanted to try and build a friendship with him. I have also been VERY apprehensive about telling him how I truly felt, that I wanted to be more than friends. I'm about 6 years older than him also (him 31, me 37).

Most days we communicate, it's multiple messages from him in a row usually in the evening after the work day has finished (he tells me about everything going on in his day, and his likes/dislikes) and sends me pictures from his camping trip and his Thanksgiving meal he cooked. I usually mirror his text style with replying. I VERY RARELY reply immediately, and usually take up to a day to reply so that I don't look desperate. There have been 2 separate times when he went for an entire week without any communication. I would give him his space, and text him about a week after and he would immediately reply letting me know that work has been overwhelming. He works in healthcare, so I understand that particular industry is a little crazy right now. However, during our text conversations I've noticed 3 patterns...

1. He RARELY asks me any questions, it's usually me asking something about him/life/politics/etc.
2. He RARELY initiates conversation, mostly just replying to me.
3. Although I compliment him, and encourage him when he's talking to me about his future, I never receive the same kind of communication back from him.

Unfortunately, we do not live anywhere close to each other, several states away, so physical meetup is difficult. Last week, I had asked him if he were open to have a Zoom catch up and he agreed. So, Saturday evening we had a Zoom call for over 2 hours face-to-face via video. Conversation went great, he was very sweet, funny, and engaged. There was never a time with any uncomfortable silence. I thought it went well, and I thought we had a good vibe. He laughed with me, and listened to all my stories intently. After our call ended, I text him a couple of times telling him about the shows I was watching as a recommendation, and he replied telling me what he was watching also.

Monday was no communication from him, but that evening I mustered up the courage (with LOTSSSSS of anxiety in tow) to tell him that I felt I had a wonderful time chatting with him on Saturday night. I said I thought he was cute, kind, and funny and that we vibe well together. I also said "I would love to continue getting to know you better, if you're up for it." I thought that was pretty clear in me telling him that I like him, I think he's cute, and that I want to continue getting to know him as more than friends. Tuesday evening rolls around and he replies with "apologies for the delay. I'm flattered and thank you! I'm totally down for a good friendship". I felt extremely shattered after reading that message. I feel like I put my heart on the line, and he basically rejected me. At this point, I just want to hide and never talk to him ever again. I'm SO embarrassed and I feel that communicating with him more will just make me look like a weak little puppy dog, awaiting for attention from someone who only wants to be friends.

Am I blowing this out of proportion, or am I right to feel this way? I don't connect with people often AT ALL. I felt something strong with him immediately, even before we started text messaging, and there was something in me that couldn't shake it. I would have never pursued him, if my heart didn't feel so strongly about it. I guess I'm looking for a little guidance. I was really hoping he would have at least complimented me back, telling me he had a good time chatting with me on Saturday, but I got nothing....I feel very dejected...

@Selenite - Hi! I apologize, what does "still open" mean? Are you asking me if things have changed in my romantic life? If yes, then unfortunately no nothing has happened. I'm keeping an open mind though!

@Jodomi @Totitoti - thank you both for being encouraging. I don't have much hope for him coming back, it's been dead silence from him. He probably doesn't care that he's hurt my feelings since he only wants to be friends anyway. I will keep you guys updated. For now, I will be pushing him out of my mind as much as possible. This overthinking is killing me.

@dancervibes06 - Hi and so sorry for the SUPER late reply. I want to thank you so much for the reading. According to your reading, I guess I need to stay single for longer. I've not been in a relationship for close to 10 years, and thought I met a nice Virgo last Fall - he turned out to be nothing and told me he just wanted to be friends so I stopped talking to him further. I met him through a university masters program, and we are teamed up in other groups together for future classes so I didn't want it to become too uncomfortable with him since we have to work together again in the future. I guess I have to stay patient and see if someone MAY come along for me one day.

I also recently just signed up to build a house - should be ready in the Fall. I also graduate this Fall so lots of fun things happening. I will concentrate on that for now. I just wish something positive in love would happen for me since it's been SO long since I've had anyone care for me as a partner. Looking forward to bringing in more positivity this year!

@Totitoti - you're right. I know I need to be patient but I also just miss my friend, I think? We met in a very different way, through university, so I didn't want it to be awkward if we are grouped together on another school project again. I also felt like we had so much in common we could talk about just anything and I missed it. I will try and keep strong and concentrate on me. This overthinking is killing me though! lol!

@Totitoti - hi there! first and foremost, I'm happy that you're happy about getting clarity on your pregnancy scare. I know there are a lot of women who struggle to get pregnant, but there are also others who either have enough children and are done, and/or aren't wanting anymore. It sounds like your Virgo hubby may be hiding his emotions, but that sounds about right for a Virgo right? Funny you mention that your Mars is in Virgo. My Venus is in Virgo, and I definitely have Virgo tendencies sometimes. Although I have Virgo in me, I still don't fully understand the full aspect of a Virgo. This is the first time in my life I've had a Virgo that I've been interested in. I realized recently that my manager (male) is also a Virgo (one day apart from my Virgo). Too bad I can't talk to him and get perspective on my guy - as per usual Virgo, I only gets tidbits of information when he's feeling particularly "sharey"! lol

All is well for me here - just getting ready for the holidays. I do think about my Virgo a lot, but have come to the realization that I can't sit around and have a pity party about it. I have to move on and do what is best for me. I have to keep my heart open and see if maybe there's someone even better for me out there. Too bad I don't connect with prospective mates very easily. This Virgo is the first guy I've been truly interested in/connected with since like 4 years ago. I try to drown myself in my work usually, and keep myself very busy. Once the pandemic hit, my industry took a direct hit and things have been very slow. I honestly can't wait till 2021, when hopefully work will pick back up and I can get a nice distraction from my inner thoughts. I started a workout routine earlier this year and lost almost 30 lbs, but fell off the wagon when Fall classes started back up. I think I'll get back into my routine - a little exercise will do me good and keep me positive!

Hope everyone on this thread has a nice holiday and you can hopefully see (in-person or virtually) your loved ones!

Hi All - Just wanted to check in since it's been quite some time. I've been concentrating on me. I signed up to build a house that should be ready by the Fall, so it's been occupying my time (in a good way). I also graduate with my Masters degree this Fall, so I'm excited to finally be finished just in time to move into my pretty new home! I never heard back from the Virgo I was talking to in Nov/Dec last year. Funny enough, since I met him through our Masters program, we are teamed up on other classes this Fall so let's see how that turns out. However, I guess I just read too far into it before, and he never really liked me in the first place. It still stings a little when I think about it, but I know that if it were meant to be it WOULD be! Hope all is well with everyone!

@TheCaptain - Hello, and sorry for the very late reply. I ended up signing up to build a house that should be ready for move-in late this Fall (almost 2022). The process is going somewhat smooth and I'm happy. Never heard back from the Virgo man, but I've put it into the back of my head. We are teamed up later this year on some projects for our Masters program, so let's see how that goes I guess. Hope all is going well with you on your end!

Hi All - Just wanted to check in since it's been quite some time. I've been concentrating on me. I signed up to build a house that should be ready by the Fall, so it's been occupying my time (in a good way). I also graduate with my Masters degree this Fall, so I'm excited to finally be finished just in time to move into my pretty new home! I never heard back from the Virgo I was talking to in Nov/Dec last year. Funny enough, since I met him through our Masters program, we are teamed up on other classes this Fall so let's see how that turns out. However, I guess I just read too far into it before, and he never really liked me in the first place. It still stings a little when I think about it, but I know that if it were meant to be it WOULD be! Hope all is well with everyone!

@dancervibes06 - Hi and so sorry for the SUPER late reply. I want to thank you so much for the reading. According to your reading, I guess I need to stay single for longer. I've not been in a relationship for close to 10 years, and thought I met a nice Virgo last Fall - he turned out to be nothing and told me he just wanted to be friends so I stopped talking to him further. I met him through a university masters program, and we are teamed up in other groups together for future classes so I didn't want it to become too uncomfortable with him since we have to work together again in the future. I guess I have to stay patient and see if someone MAY come along for me one day.

I also recently just signed up to build a house - should be ready in the Fall. I also graduate this Fall so lots of fun things happening. I will concentrate on that for now. I just wish something positive in love would happen for me since it's been SO long since I've had anyone care for me as a partner. Looking forward to bringing in more positivity this year!

@Selenite - Hi! I apologize, what does "still open" mean? Are you asking me if things have changed in my romantic life? If yes, then unfortunately no nothing has happened. I'm keeping an open mind though!

@TheCaptain - I wanted to see if I could please get an updated reading regarding buying a home. I'm finally at a place financially where I can (hopefully) buy my dream home. It's been a long time coming, with years of it almost happening and then some roadblock gets in my way, and I'm really hoping that I can lock something in within the next 6 months or so. Do you see this happening for me? I found a realtor I'm working with, and already interested in a few communities. I'm thinking I'll probably build, rather than buy pre-owned, so that I can make sure I am getting all features/incentives I'm looking for in a home. Just wanted to see what the future has in store for me, and if this will work in my favor. Thanks so much, as always, for your guidance!!

@Selenite - no they unfortunately didnt give me a timeframe :(. But of readings are usually for 6 months then I will continue to stay patient.

@Selenite - oh, sorry. Well I guess kind of. I just got a general life/love/career/everything reading in November. At that time the reader said I was "manifesting new love" but nothing has happened for me really lol. I was just curious if something may look up for me soon, romantically. If you think I should wait, then I will.

@Selenite - happy new year, and thank you for the reply! I havent talked to the Virgo man in a month now. After I mentioned I was interested in him, he made it sound like he was only looking for friendship so I havent talked to him since then. I'd love to have an updated reading on where things are headed with my love life, especially since I dont think that the Virgo man will reach back out again for any romantic communication.

@Totitoti - hi there! first and foremost, I'm happy that you're happy about getting clarity on your pregnancy scare. I know there are a lot of women who struggle to get pregnant, but there are also others who either have enough children and are done, and/or aren't wanting anymore. It sounds like your Virgo hubby may be hiding his emotions, but that sounds about right for a Virgo right? Funny you mention that your Mars is in Virgo. My Venus is in Virgo, and I definitely have Virgo tendencies sometimes. Although I have Virgo in me, I still don't fully understand the full aspect of a Virgo. This is the first time in my life I've had a Virgo that I've been interested in. I realized recently that my manager (male) is also a Virgo (one day apart from my Virgo). Too bad I can't talk to him and get perspective on my guy - as per usual Virgo, I only gets tidbits of information when he's feeling particularly "sharey"! lol

All is well for me here - just getting ready for the holidays. I do think about my Virgo a lot, but have come to the realization that I can't sit around and have a pity party about it. I have to move on and do what is best for me. I have to keep my heart open and see if maybe there's someone even better for me out there. Too bad I don't connect with prospective mates very easily. This Virgo is the first guy I've been truly interested in/connected with since like 4 years ago. I try to drown myself in my work usually, and keep myself very busy. Once the pandemic hit, my industry took a direct hit and things have been very slow. I honestly can't wait till 2021, when hopefully work will pick back up and I can get a nice distraction from my inner thoughts. I started a workout routine earlier this year and lost almost 30 lbs, but fell off the wagon when Fall classes started back up. I think I'll get back into my routine - a little exercise will do me good and keep me positive!

Hope everyone on this thread has a nice holiday and you can hopefully see (in-person or virtually) your loved ones!

@TheCaptain - in all honesty you're exactly right! I have come to the resolution that although I'm a little heartbroken, I had the courage to put myself out there and fight my fear and insecurity to tell him how I feel. For that I'm proud of myself. I have no desire to wait around for someone who may or may not decide to discover they want me "someday". I'm still a little sad and embarrassed, and have retreated into my shell a bit but I'm trying to keep my mind open and clear for a good holiday season and hopefully a better 2021 where I might find someone who appreciates me on a deeper level. I know your 2021 reading for me showed that I need to do some deep cleaning (mind, body soul) so I'll be slowly working on that. I hope something works out romantically for me as I'm truly ready to just find my soulmate already!