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That sounds great suz, I know it will all work out for you. I will keep this in my thoughts and prayers for a wonderful outcome for you! Love and success in this matter... astra

Hi AstraAngel, Thank you for your wonderful insight, I will take your advice and let him be with the food thing, your right about the father figure he is not around and was very overbearing on the education front and still tries to interfere from afar, but my son doesn't let him in to his world at all, so I think I am blessed that I am allowed in as much as I am. Could I ask another favour I wonder? I have just had really devasting news - I had been trying to sell my house for nearly two years, managed to get a first time buyer in June/July of this year and found a house to move into which was empty so should of been straight forward. However there were legal implications with the house I was buying which I was not orginally aware at the start and because of the length of time its been taking to sort out and his solicitors being so slow my buyer has now decided to pull out even though we were so close to completing. Can you see the best way forward from this point, as I see me being stuck now in this house that I have come to hate with neighbours who are arrogant and ignorant - should I put it back on the market? My d.o.b. is 03/11/1971 Many thanks Suzi

AstraAngel, Thank you again for your words - they have been very insightful and have helped a great deal. Just to let you know that we spoke at length last night, he really does not know what he wants so we will remain friends, I can't let him go out of my life, as he can't me, but at the same time I will not let that hold me back from anything new that comes along. So we will see what the future holds. Thank you again

Thank you so much Shaubby, I think things have finally come to a head in my mind, especially after last nights episode. I need someone who is on the same sort of level with me both emotionally and intellectually.

I'm afraid I agree with the psychic. I feel you are only one of several love 'options' your friend has up his sleeve and he is keeping everything open and everyone dangling until he makes up his mind who he wants. But even when he thinks he has made up his mind, he will change it again. Get away from this unreliable unstable person.He has an obsession with being secretive to the point where he gives in to every temptation, seduction, and distraction that allows him to flee the grind of daily life. You are merely one of those distractions. He actually fears being controlled by another person and will put off commitment forever if he could. This is a very self-centred dishonest man - leave him at a run.

Bump - can anyone offer any advice on this issue please

Thank you so much for your reply. I do try to talk to him but he's adament that he doesn't want to open up to anyone, so I guess I'll just have to trust that if and when he feels ready to talk he will.