I'm noticing a common thread in the forums here - and they all have to do with Scorpios. I cannot believe the power of this zodiac sign!
Anyway, I am a scorpion female (Oct 27, 83) dating a scorpion male (Nov 3, 83). Now while I understand what kind of man I am dealing with, I don't know HOW to deal with his anger and his drama. We have been together on and off for over 3 years now. He has no problem telling me where I stand in his life (i.e. he loves me), BUT the typical scorpio rage, anger, drama and jealously really hinders our advancement.
Like a lot of the other females on this forum, he has been burned in the past by an ex-wife who manipulated, cheated, and did a number on him. He can't forget what she did, and sometimes I can see him go back to that time when she was cheating (i.e. I sometimes fall asleep with my phone and he always said something controlling or manipulative about it, until I figured out that she used to text her lover while they were in bed together).
I love him to death when he's not a raging man. He's everything I need, but the emotional part in dealing with his anger is taking a bit of a toll on me. I have a backbone, I still have my self-esteem but I need tips on how not to give into his games and drama.
I heard the best thing you can do is be compassionate and not be angry back, but I would love to hear thoughts and opinions from everyone.