@ kaplow- just finished reading your post, Im so sorry you went through that with this jerk-off Cancer guy. Im thinking there still isnt any response from him right? Even if there was a response- under no circumstance can you go back to having any kind of relationship. He was disrespectful and mean. Agh! Now you need to take care of yourself and recooperate. So first things first- no more Auntie!! The lady is toxic..unintentionally...but still toxic! And if you are stuck with a situation you cannot get out of, I would mention that you are not too happy with her son. And it doesnt have to be all that mean, just an off hand comment "Oh I saw him at the game- but he dodged me which I thought was weird" or "Can you believe it Auntie, I think he saw me and walked by without saying anything, why do you think?" she will give him so much grief lol!!
You are better than that, and you know it- you would never ignore someone who you've known most of your life like he did. Im glad you going to do something special everyday!!! Oh btw when is your birthday?
@Ethereal- Nice to hear the taurus is still around and likes chick flicks!! I've only met one guy who likes chick flicks....the Cancer dude (his fav movie is "The notebook!"). Glad you are feeling better- I also get very weepy before my period, one time (..in band camp lol) I tried to cook a chicken stew and it came out terrible and I burst out in tears, ah the joys of being a woman. Any plans for the weekend?
As for myself, my Cancer guy was writing up text msg like I'd never seen before last night. So much Im inclined to say he must have been drunk but Im not sure. Anyway during that I folded and asked if he wanted to see a football game with me on saturday (at a bar). Of course he has a race on sat morning but said he may still be up for it in the afternoon......what do you think ladies? Another stand-up? I figured...so I took a preventative action and double booked. I asked the Pices guy if he wanted to go and he said yes. So i figure in my head 2 things may happen 1. Cancer guy is too tired and cancels in which I wont be bummed out because Pices guy will come or 2. Cancer guy does come and I cancel with Pices guy and tell him Im not feeling well (yes no more nice girl!).
Now you may ask why am I choosing Cancer guy over Pices guy? When it comes to watching sports, Cancer guy is just so much more fun, and Pices guy not so much.
Now heres the real kicker....I have a dinner to go to at night so whichever one does show up for the game I will kindly so goodbye after the game and go about my business :D. Yes I am feeling better and more in control. I figure let me use and stand themup before they do it to me!
Wish me luck and have an awesome weekend!!
PS redleo where are you?