Your comments do resonate with how I see our relationship. We have both been dealing with being more compassionate and forgiving to one another. Its been hard having a long distance relationship with such strong feelings on both sides. He also spends a tremendous amount of time working...he's an entrepreneur, which takes time away from our phone time. He recently asked me whether I could see myself spending the rest of my life with him. I said yes. We have not decided who will move to whose territory, but it seems most likely I will come to him. Id be ok with that...if he will spend the time it takes to support our relationship at that next level. I guess that is my most important question....is he capable of that with me? Am I being an over analytic, paranoid Scorpio, or smart and cautious woman??? He says he is, but will he spend all his time working? If I moved and he was gone all the time, I would not be happy there. We do work together some as well...we make such a good partnership.
You did say it looked good for a marriage.
Thank you VERY much for your feedback! You are as good as many professionals!