Thank you Daliolite for the reading I know this is for the best right now.
Posts made by ScorpioF69
RE: Tarot Readings
Thank you Dalioite - you're reading is spot on.
I do care for him very much and have always thought of him as "the one". He says he's not ready to be in a relationship right now (he's been saying this for a long time and his life is a bit of a mess right now) so I decided recently to give up and walk away. I got tired of waiting around and decided this was the best thing for me to do. I broke off all contact with him. This whole situation was dragging me down and I had to let it go.
Even though I did walk away, I still do feel that he is the one and I know our timing just isn't right. I feel that distance is the best thing for right now. I still have hopes that things will be different down the road and I'm wondering if I did the right thing. I don't know what he's thinking or feeling or if he even feels the same. He always told me to be patient, but 2 years was long enough. I'm not waiting around for him and if someone else should come along, I'll give them a chance.
I know he still wants me in his life but I don't know if giving up was the right thing to do. Should I continue being patient and see where it goes, or is there no hope at all? I wonder what his true feelings are for me, or if he has someone else, or hopes to find someone else.
Thank you for your insight. I really do appreciate it
RE: Familiar with spirit guides?
Interesting topic I can tell you my experience -
When I was a child I remember having 2 imaginary playmates, a girl and a boy and I had names for them. As an adult, I never thought much about them but always remembered their names.
A couple of years ago, I had a reading done and the reader mentioned two spirits around me - a woman and little boy. She told me the name of the woman and at the time I couldn't remember anybody that I knew with that name other than a family member that had passed years before I was born. I thought maybe she was referring to this relative that I never met. I had no idea who the little boy could have been.
Then a couple of days later, something clicked and I realized that the name she told me was extremely close to the name of the imaginary playmate I had as a child, an unusual made-up name I hadn't thought about in years. I have always had an interest in spirit guides and tarot and such, but never really had time to devote to learning more about it until the past couple of years. After I realized how close the name was to my childhood playmate, I asked my guide if that was her and I heard a loud "Yes!" ...like I finally got it and made the connection!
Ever since then, I feel more connected to her... I think maybe your guides start communicating with you more when you're ready to start listening At least in my case..lol
I always wondered how others know they have more than one guide, or how they can differentiate between messages they receive? I feel like I might have more than one guide around me, but it seems my communication is mainly with just the one.
RE: AstraAngel - would u mind giving a reading?
Thank you very much... I do feel much better and I also think you are right about everything you said. I'll just let him sort everything out and keep caring about him - then see where it goes!
I really do appreciate you taking the time......Blessings and have a great weekend
RE: AstraAngel - would u mind giving a reading?
Thank you Astra for the reading - you did describe him and his situation perfectly. When we first met, almost 2 years ago, it started off with a few dates and him pursuing me. Then when I think he realized I might be somebody he could be serious with, he pulled away and said he wasn't ready for a relationship and wanted to keep me as a friend. So, we became really good friends for awhile with him confiding in me and turning to me for advice.
He does seem like a person who really thinks things through before getting in a relationship and said when he's in a relationship, he's "all in" and it's a different way of life for him, so I don't think it's something he enters into lightly. He is really struggling right now - drifting through crappy jobs, living with family... trying to get back on his feet... so he says this is the reason he isn't ready for a relationship, which I can understand.
However, I know that he does try to pick up women! I don't know if he's had any luck in that area and he says it's just for one thing,, but it still bothers me. It's caused a lot of arguments between us and we've grown really distant. It makes me feel like he's just keeping his options open and seeing if something better comes along.
I really do care for him and know he does care for me, but I don't know if his feelings for me are as only a friend. I see in your reading you said his feelings are more than friendship and that he's just stuck by his circumstances right now. I do feel this could be the case, but sometimes I have my doubts.
It's funny how you said he likes mystery, dark hair, dark clothes, etc.... because that is exactly the type of woman I know he's physically attracted to... which is the opposite of me! At least physically...
You said in your reading a few times that he is ready to make a move with "someone". I'm sorry for not understanding, but do you mean that he's ready for a relationship with anyone who might come along? And doesn't really care if it's me or someone else? He keeps telling me that he doesn't have those feelings for me right now and that I should go find someone else, but he doesn't know how he'll feel 6 months from now. It sounds crazy to me, how do you have feelings for someone in the beginning... then not have them.. then say you might have them in 6 months! I don't know if he's just scared and keeping his distance, or stringing me along?
I really do care for him and, while I'm not sitting around waiting for him if someone else should come along, I can't get him out of my head
Thank you very much for the reading - I know there is really nothing I can do but just enjoy those feelings I have for him and see where it goes.
AstraAngel - would u mind giving a reading?
I've enjoyed reading your posts and you seem very caring and thoughtful I was wondering if you would mind giving me a relationship reading?
I'm not currently in a relationship but I do have a friend that I care very much for but our timing just never seems to be right. He's been having a lot of personal and financial issues the past couple years and says he's not ready to be in a relationship at this time. We used to be very close, but there's been a lot of bickering lately and we have drifted apart. I really do love this man and feel we could be very happy together and we always seem to find our way back to each other. Would you be able to tell me how he feels about me? Does he just want me only as a friend, or does he feel I'm somebody he could possibly be with?
I appreciate any insight you can provide Thank you!
RE: Friend owes me money
Blmoon, I just wanted to let you know you were right - my friend did finally contact me yesterday after more than 2 months. He sent me an email saying he is starting a new job Monday and will start paying me back. I'll give him some more time to see if he follows through.
RE: Friend owes me money
Thank you again Blmoon and Captain,
I know he did use me and wasn't much of a friend, I've told him several times I've felt this way. The friendship has definitely been a one-way street for a long time, not always though. Of course he doesn't see this at all, or doesn't want to admit it to himself. He says friends help each other out and he'd do the same for me if he was in a position to do so and that he has helped other friends in the past when he wasn't in such a difficult financial situation. He just recently found a steady job a few months ago after being on unemployment for almost 2 years. But I think he's never been good with money and did file bankruptcy a few years ago.
I'll give it until the end of the month and decide what to do then. Thank you again
RE: Friend owes me money
Captain & Blmoon,
Thank you for the responses... you are both spot-on with him. I've learned he doesn't have a problem asking his family and friends for money, but most know better than to help him. I think that was my mistake trusting him, but I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt and really wanted to help him. I think he does try to do good, but gets frustrated fast and takes the easy way out by running and hiding. He avoids confrontation at all cost. He does have a big ego and is very narcissistic; I think he took the attitude that I'm here to help him. I've also learned he doesn't have a problem lying and manipulating to get what he wants. He does seem to run from his responsibilities and I think he'll always be struggling until he learns to handle things better.
Blmoon - he is exactly how you said. He's very stubborn and whenever we've had a disagreement, he refuses to talk to me for days until he gets over his anger. When we do start talking again, he never will talk about the issue that started it, so things never get resolved. I'm the opposite; I wish he would just talk to me and we could lay it all out on the table, resolve it and move on, but he just buries his hand in the sand and hopes it all goes away...very frustrating.
Also, he handles his finances just like you said - never pays his bills online, waits until the day they are due and then wire transfers the money for a fee, or gives his mother the money to write a check, since he doesn't have his own checking account. This is a 38-year old man.
In the last email I sent him about 6 weeks ago, I asked him to just contact me so we can talk about things and hopefully come up with some resolution. I was very understanding and told him that I hope we can still be friends and work this out. I never received any response and gave him this time to cool off, but I haven't heard anything so I sent him an email yesterday morning. I offered to settle everything with him just for what he owes on a joint account we have that is still outstanding. I told him I'll forgive all the past debt on what I've lent him if he just pays that account - I very fair offer, since he owes me a lot more than what's on the account. I told him if I don't hear from him by the end of the month I'll proceed with filing paperwork to sue him in small claims court for the entire amount he owes me, then once I receive a judgment I'll file it with his employer to garnish his wages.
I do feel conflicted about doing that, even though I know he more than deserves it. I miss the friendship and closeness we had and feel deep down inside he's not a bad person, nobody is perfect, and feel he did care about me as well, but he's done a lot of damage. I'm not making excuses for him, but I think he had a difficult life and it was always a struggle.
Part of me just thinks to let it all go and forget about the money, but another part is still really hurt and offended that he could do that to me - someone who went out of their way to help him. And he knows that I'm a single parent and my finances aren't that great, not as bad as his though, and I could really use the money. Also, I hate the fact that I know he feels like I'm the one to blame here and I screwed him over and he did nothing wrong. I think he deserves whatever he gets, but I don't know if I want to be the one to do it What goes around comes around....
I know if I were to take him to court, it would end everything and there would be no chance of us ever becoming friends again; if I'm even sure I want to be friends with someone like this. But, like you said, I'm able to seperate the money issue from the friendship and I really do think he tries to be a good person. He's always willing to help someone in need, if he can, and he is a genuinely sweet, sensitive and caring person, but he's got a lot of growing up to do. Then again, the fact that he has cut off all contact and may never contact me again, might already be that end so I would have nothing to lose by suing him.
Thank you both again - I will give him until the end of the month and if he doesn't at least try by then, I'll decide what to do at that time. It's not in me to hurt someone I care about, but any little bit of money I can get back helps.
Friend owes me money
I was hoping someone could give me some insight...
I have a friend/ex-friend that owes me money but has cut off all contact for the past 2 months; blocked my phone calls and text messages and refuses to answer any emails or voice messages. I really hate to do this, but I'm thinking of taking him to small claims court. I was just wondering if he has any intention of making amends, or if I should go ahead with the lawsuit.
We had a falling out and I don't know if he's just angry and needs time to cool off or if he has no intention of ever making good.
Will friend and I reconcile?
I was hoping someone could give me any insight on a relationship I have with a friend. We had a falling out and he won't respond to my calls or texts; he has cut off all contact. I'm not going to contact him again, I'm leaving it up to him now, but I feel so badly for the way things have turned out and I'm wondering if he will ever want to make amends with me, or if he's completely done. Is he just taking time to heal and reflect, or if he has moved on?
Thank you for any assistance.
RE: Does being patient with Taurus ever pay off?
Thanks for the input everyone.... I've decided that I think it's just best for me to move on and to break off all contact.
We've only been "just friends" for the past year a half because he had lost his job and was going through financial difficulty and didn't want to get into a relationship, which I can understand. He always gave me the indication that things would be different between us when he got back on his feet and that I should just be patient because we're just getting to know each other, which I have been.
But unfortunately I think it was just a line he was giving me to keep me on a string. I've helped him out financially when he needed it and was always there for him. I've always told him all along how I feel about him, he's clear on that, and if he doesn't have the same feelings for me to just let me know and I'll move on. We became close friends and talked and texted daily, he was in contact with me almost constantly. I thought this meant interest, but I suppose now it was just an attachment??
Well, I spoke to him about it again last night which ended up into a big fight and told me he'd NEVER be with me because of all the things we've said and done to each other (its been messy at times) and I've always been just a friend to him. This is what I've been asking him for, to just be honest with me, for the past year, and he never was.... at least, I finally know... I just wish he wouldn't have mislead me for so long. I thought it was just him being patient and cautious in his taurus way, but I see now it's most likely a charachter flaw and he's just a user. I know for a fact that he's always going on online dating services looking for women and is really open to a relationship. I dont think he's met anyone yet, but it's a load of bull for him to say he's not looking for a relationship.
Thanks for the input everyone... guess he was just a bad guy... lesson learned
RE: Does being patient with Taurus ever pay off?
We met about a year and half ago.. we got close real fast but then he pulled away and said he wasn't ready for a relationship. His last one, with the woman he was inseperable with, lasted 4 years. They were about to get married but broke up 2 weeks before the wedding. That was about 5 years ago.
I've tried cutting off contact but he eventually contacts me and I let him back in my life.. the longest we've gone without speaking is 3 weeks. I feel like he's just keeping me around as a backup because I know he flirts with other women. I know he cares about me, but I cant help feeling he wouldnt be looking around if he was really into me.
Does being patient with Taurus ever pay off?
I've read all about how Tauruses take their time deciding if they want to be in a relationship with you and from what I've read on here it seems many are in the same boat as me.... waiting and wondering if I'm just wasting my time.
I'm just looking for anyone that has had any success stories being patient with their taurus? Has he/she finally made that move? If so, what made them decide to take that next step?
I have doubts that my taurus may never make that move because I know in his past relationship he said they were inseperable from the day they met, so he obviously wasn't patient there! I'm wondering if that's how it has to be for most tauruses - if they have to feel that way instantly about the person. I feel like I'm the only one putting in any effort and it does get tiring, not to mention it's not a great feeling for the ego I've tried letting go, ending contact and just moving on but he always draws me back and then I'm right back where I started - with him taking baby steps and me just wondering if he's EVER going to get up off his butt
I guess I'm just looking for any success stories from those who've had the patience to stick around.