Thank you Daliolite for the reading I know this is for the best right now.
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RE: Tarot Readings
Thank you Dalioite - you're reading is spot on.
I do care for him very much and have always thought of him as "the one". He says he's not ready to be in a relationship right now (he's been saying this for a long time and his life is a bit of a mess right now) so I decided recently to give up and walk away. I got tired of waiting around and decided this was the best thing for me to do. I broke off all contact with him. This whole situation was dragging me down and I had to let it go.
Even though I did walk away, I still do feel that he is the one and I know our timing just isn't right. I feel that distance is the best thing for right now. I still have hopes that things will be different down the road and I'm wondering if I did the right thing. I don't know what he's thinking or feeling or if he even feels the same. He always told me to be patient, but 2 years was long enough. I'm not waiting around for him and if someone else should come along, I'll give them a chance.
I know he still wants me in his life but I don't know if giving up was the right thing to do. Should I continue being patient and see where it goes, or is there no hope at all? I wonder what his true feelings are for me, or if he has someone else, or hopes to find someone else.
Thank you for your insight. I really do appreciate it
RE: Familiar with spirit guides?
Interesting topic I can tell you my experience -
When I was a child I remember having 2 imaginary playmates, a girl and a boy and I had names for them. As an adult, I never thought much about them but always remembered their names.
A couple of years ago, I had a reading done and the reader mentioned two spirits around me - a woman and little boy. She told me the name of the woman and at the time I couldn't remember anybody that I knew with that name other than a family member that had passed years before I was born. I thought maybe she was referring to this relative that I never met. I had no idea who the little boy could have been.
Then a couple of days later, something clicked and I realized that the name she told me was extremely close to the name of the imaginary playmate I had as a child, an unusual made-up name I hadn't thought about in years. I have always had an interest in spirit guides and tarot and such, but never really had time to devote to learning more about it until the past couple of years. After I realized how close the name was to my childhood playmate, I asked my guide if that was her and I heard a loud "Yes!" ...like I finally got it and made the connection!
Ever since then, I feel more connected to her... I think maybe your guides start communicating with you more when you're ready to start listening At least in my case..lol
I always wondered how others know they have more than one guide, or how they can differentiate between messages they receive? I feel like I might have more than one guide around me, but it seems my communication is mainly with just the one.
RE: AstraAngel - would u mind giving a reading?
Thank you very much... I do feel much better and I also think you are right about everything you said. I'll just let him sort everything out and keep caring about him - then see where it goes!
I really do appreciate you taking the time......Blessings and have a great weekend
RE: AstraAngel - would u mind giving a reading?
Thank you Astra for the reading - you did describe him and his situation perfectly. When we first met, almost 2 years ago, it started off with a few dates and him pursuing me. Then when I think he realized I might be somebody he could be serious with, he pulled away and said he wasn't ready for a relationship and wanted to keep me as a friend. So, we became really good friends for awhile with him confiding in me and turning to me for advice.
He does seem like a person who really thinks things through before getting in a relationship and said when he's in a relationship, he's "all in" and it's a different way of life for him, so I don't think it's something he enters into lightly. He is really struggling right now - drifting through crappy jobs, living with family... trying to get back on his feet... so he says this is the reason he isn't ready for a relationship, which I can understand.
However, I know that he does try to pick up women! I don't know if he's had any luck in that area and he says it's just for one thing,, but it still bothers me. It's caused a lot of arguments between us and we've grown really distant. It makes me feel like he's just keeping his options open and seeing if something better comes along.
I really do care for him and know he does care for me, but I don't know if his feelings for me are as only a friend. I see in your reading you said his feelings are more than friendship and that he's just stuck by his circumstances right now. I do feel this could be the case, but sometimes I have my doubts.
It's funny how you said he likes mystery, dark hair, dark clothes, etc.... because that is exactly the type of woman I know he's physically attracted to... which is the opposite of me! At least physically...
You said in your reading a few times that he is ready to make a move with "someone". I'm sorry for not understanding, but do you mean that he's ready for a relationship with anyone who might come along? And doesn't really care if it's me or someone else? He keeps telling me that he doesn't have those feelings for me right now and that I should go find someone else, but he doesn't know how he'll feel 6 months from now. It sounds crazy to me, how do you have feelings for someone in the beginning... then not have them.. then say you might have them in 6 months! I don't know if he's just scared and keeping his distance, or stringing me along?
I really do care for him and, while I'm not sitting around waiting for him if someone else should come along, I can't get him out of my head
Thank you very much for the reading - I know there is really nothing I can do but just enjoy those feelings I have for him and see where it goes.
AstraAngel - would u mind giving a reading?
I've enjoyed reading your posts and you seem very caring and thoughtful I was wondering if you would mind giving me a relationship reading?
I'm not currently in a relationship but I do have a friend that I care very much for but our timing just never seems to be right. He's been having a lot of personal and financial issues the past couple years and says he's not ready to be in a relationship at this time. We used to be very close, but there's been a lot of bickering lately and we have drifted apart. I really do love this man and feel we could be very happy together and we always seem to find our way back to each other. Would you be able to tell me how he feels about me? Does he just want me only as a friend, or does he feel I'm somebody he could possibly be with?
I appreciate any insight you can provide Thank you!
RE: Friend owes me money
Blmoon, I just wanted to let you know you were right - my friend did finally contact me yesterday after more than 2 months. He sent me an email saying he is starting a new job Monday and will start paying me back. I'll give him some more time to see if he follows through.