Hi Scorpwolf,

My experience with Libra men have been....good, great but also heartbreaking. As you know us Scorpios (at least myself) are very deep with our love. My first Libra i was with lasted 2.5 years. He still to this day (12 years later) is the only man i have the deepest intellectual connection with. As for the other Libra man i was with, we were together for 9 years. Engaged, lived together with both he and his son, that I fell in love with. We broke up on my Bday last year at my best friends wedding. My recent break up with him was the hardest thing i ever did in my life. I still think about him and his son every waking day. I am over him and have moved on, but the 1st 3 months were the darkest moments ive ever experienced in my entire life.

In summary, I find Libra men to be very outgoing, romantic and humorous. They listen very well and are attentive to your needs. The only downside that drove me nuts between both of the Libras i dated, is that they are superficial! Sometime TOO superficial and wishy washy with almost anything. Although I had alot of fun while it lasted.....I can tell you that i will wont date another Libra man again.

I am happy for you and wish you the best......

...also i must add that, I have NEVER had difficulties in expressing myself to anyone, even past relationships in my life. I have been rejected by people/partners after expressing myself, but it never really stopped me from continuing being honest and have fear of what they might say. Again, aside from him having rejected me....i cant understand WHY i am so scared to express myself.

WOW...first of thank you very much!! (also, im sorry i posted on someone elses thread)'

I didnt see your response until now. I broke it off with my taurus today. As much interest and feelings i have for him and as much hope i had in the 2 of us becoming more than just FWB's (friends with benefits as he titled it) I couldnt stand to continue being treated the way that he has been towards me lately. As for lack of commitment, i feel it is the other way around. As i have been the only one "semi" open about my feelings to him. The only reason why i say "semi" is because anytime i have tried to talk about my feelings, he shot me down and it made ME feel that HE didnt take our relationship seriously, and made sarcastic remarks about the status of our relationship. I know that deep down he really does care for me, but at the same time scared. I just cannot understand why he cant be open and honest with me about his feelings. Like you say in your last sentence, we do need to talk honestly about our fears, issues, and problems. I too think that our relationship can be more than what it is....but it seems he does not give us much credit, and I dont know how to express myself to him without fear of being rejected again. For the last 5 months I have done nothing but assure him that i care for him, but hes been very unfair to me, that (your right) i do fear that i am being taken advantage by him and has also dumped me 2x in a matter of 5 months that ive known him! For me...its not that im trying to control, rather i cant handle the amount of emotional game play that he seems to continue to want to play. I too, am very driven with my career, just as him; and made the decision today that i need to just go back and focus on myself.

I am doing ok, and feel that i have done the right thing by writing him my feelings with where I stand. I sent this morning and still yet to hear from him, as it has now been a week since we last spoke. I guess i wonder if I m going to hear from him soon in response to my letter.....

Thank you again Captain for taking the time to provide me your reading.

@ The Captain:

Could you assist me in a compatibility reading? My bday: october 24, 1982 born at 835pm HIS bday: May 12, 1975

Thank you!

My recent taurus boyfriend just broke up with me last night, and I am so shocked and confused about everything that happened so fast! We have only been dating for a couple of months. Those couple of months were absolutely amazing! I was in a 9 yr relationship w a libra that I loved and emotionally scarred, hurt very badly after our seperation. I was just starting to feel good about being single....then i meet this taurus!

He is the first taurus i have ever dated and let me tell you.....WOW! We initially made it clear in the beggining that we did want to be in a relationship. Unfortunately, me being the loving scorpio that i am....i got caught up and fell into that darn trap of love. (Which i did NOT want to do) Having seen how well my taurus and i connected on ALL levels, i was falling hard for this amazing guy! I was confused by his actions vs his words. While he made it clear he did not want to commit to anything, he treated me as if i was his girlfriend. He bought me gifts, gave me his own personal blanket, introduced to all of his friends as his gf, etc. While having been invited to his circle of friends, 1/2 of them tell me he is in love with me while the other half told me to run, or at least not fall for him. I was so confused!

This past saturday night we went out together and all his friends, and acted like he was my boyfriend. He told me there no were chairs in this place for me to sit on, the only place i could sit was on his lap! Our evening went SO well..then we got home, we were between the sheets and getting ready for some loving action....but something came of me and i told him i couldnt have s e x with him anymore. As much i really did want to, my feelings poured out and i told him that i was really into him and didnt want to get hurt seeing that his friends are basically telling me to run. he said ok..didnt take advantage of me by getting what he wanted, he just said ok, but i could tell me wanted to say more but didnt. The next day (yesterday) he was very angry at his staff because he had to leave and go to work. Later on that day he shows up the local hang where me and his friends were. As soon he came in, he didnt say hi to me, instead chewed his best friends/employee out for what happened. Then walked over to me and says while im in the mood come with me so we can talk. He was cut, dry and to the point. We cant date anymore because I dont want to be the ahole that hurts you. If ive mislead you by treating you nice and buying you gifts, im sorry. I dont need my friends knowing about everything you and i do. We can be friends, but we cant sleep together anymore. It was so quick I was speechless..and had nothing to say.

I know he has a lot of personal issues happening with his grandmother getting ready to pass away, along with his very busy travel schedules for work.

I feel awful and wonder if i never said what i said saturday night, would l be sitting here right now sad and confused? It was so nice not to cry anymore about my ex libra, and now find myself crying over a taurus that really touched my heart in only a matter of 2 months. I sent him an email this morning telling that everything happened so fast yesterday, i would like a chance to meet him for lunch or dinner. I have yet to hear from him......do you think he will call or respond? I hate falling in love and am SO scared to date again. I cant seem to figure out how to keep my feelings in check......someone HELP me PLEASE

My recent taurus boyfriend just broke up with me last night, and I am so shocked and confused about everything that happened so fast! We have only been dating for a couple of months. Those couple of months were absolutely amazing! I was in a 9 yr relationship w a libra that I loved and emotionally scarred, hurt very badly after our seperation. I was just starting to feel good about being single....then i meet this taurus!

He is the first taurus i have ever dated and let me tell you.....WOW! We initially made it clear in the beggining that we did want to be in a relationship. Unfortunately, me being the loving scorpio that i am....i got caught up and fell into that darn trap of love. (Which i did NOT want to do) Having seen how well my taurus and i connected on ALL levels, i was falling hard for this amazing guy! I was confused by his actions vs his words. While he made it clear he did not want to commit to anything, he treated me as if i was his girlfriend. He bought me gifts, gave me his own personal blanket, introduced to all of his friends as his gf, etc. While having been invited to his circle of friends, 1/2 of them tell me he is in love with me while the other half told me to run, or at least not fall for him. I was so confused!

This past saturday night we went out together and all his friends, and acted like he was my boyfriend. He told me there no were chairs in this place for me to sit on, the only place i could sit was on his lap! Our evening went SO well..then we got home, we were between the sheets and getting ready for some loving action....but something came of me and i told him i couldnt have s e x with him anymore. As much i really did want to, my feelings poured out and i told him that i was really into him and didnt want to get hurt seeing that his friends are basically telling me to run. he said ok..didnt take advantage of me by getting what he wanted, he just said ok, but i could tell me wanted to say more but didnt. The next day (yesterday) he was very angry at his staff because he had to leave and go to work. Later on that day he shows up the local hang where me and his friends were. As soon he came in, he didnt say hi to me, instead chewed his best friends/employee out for what happened. Then walked over to me and says while im in the mood come with me so we can talk. He was cut, dry and to the point. We cant date anymore because I dont want to be the ahole that hurts you. If ive mislead you by treating you nice and buying you gifts, im sorry. I dont need my friends knowing about everything you and i do. We can be friends, but we cant sleep together anymore. It was so quick I was speechless..and had nothing to say.

I know he has a lot of personal issues happening with his grandmother getting ready to pass away, along with his very busy travel schedules for work.

I feel awful and wonder if i never said what i said saturday night, would l be sitting here right now sad and confused? It was so nice not to cry anymore about my ex libra, and now find myself crying over a taurus that really touched my heart in only a matter of 2 months. I sent him an email this morning telling that everything happened so fast yesterday, i would like a chance to meet him for lunch or dinner. I have yet to hear from him......do you think he will call or respond? I hate falling in love and am SO scared to date again. I cant seem to figure out how to keep my feelings in check......someone HELP me PLEASE

Meee TOO! I would like to understand better.....im confused with a taurus man that i am dating

Hi All:

I am a 28 year old Scorpio/Libra cusp (Oct 24th) He is 35 and a Taurus (may 12)

The 2 of us have been dating for about a month now, but we are not exclusive. Between the 2 of us, we are both very focused in our careers and help one another by bouncing off ideas and give each other advice in terms of both being successful. On the intimate side....WOW...we connect on a level that is quite intense! More intense than the cancer I dated a while back. Very passionate and very sensual in the bedroom....I couldnt ask for more!

From what i have read on these taurus guys, they are quiet, confident, secure, possesive and slow to love. So far, Ive seen all the qualities listed and beginning to see the possesive side, but not too much. Between the 2 of us, we travel alot for our jobs. I travel alot within the state, while he travels the country and also out of the country to Ecuador. He is an owner of a hotel 1 degree of the actual equator. While ive been told by his friends not to fall in love because he will be leaving soon, i keep myself in check to protect my feelings. On the flip side...Im only assuming that he too is starting to fall for me. He left for Colorado on Tue for business and do some snow boarding. The plan was for him to go to CO, then leave for Ecuador. Before he left for CO, we celebrated St pattys day together with all of his friends at my house. I cooked corned beef cabbage and shephards pie then we all went out and partied hard! The following day, I took the day off and we spent it in a private cabana on the beach, got private massages and ate delightful brunch all underneath the cabana facing the atlantic! Then topped our evening with a very nice elegant dinner at a fancy restaurant. We ended the night with a nice bubble bath at my place. That night after the bath, he got very quiet and seemed a little taken back (i guess thats the right words) then he changed his tune back to being his normal self. (I really didnt understand it). Anyhow,Ive spoken to him everyday since hes left, and he has now changed his plans to come back to FL. (FL is home for him) He tells me misses me and asks the same of me nearly everyday since Tuesday, and its only saturday! lol

Because of his friends and his position of traveling, I have really just taken the approach to enjoy his company and time spent together, but at the same time, Im starting to really have deeper feelings for him. We have the same taste and find that we have alot in common, In terms of goals, food, luxuries, evenings out etc. We both work hard so we can play harder and enjoy life relaxing...we are totally in synch in these terms.

My question to all of you is: any advice, thoughts, suggestions on this taurus/scorpio/libra compatability. Should i let him go? He tells me that he typically only comes to FL a month a year to visit, then stays in ecuador. But everytime we're together it just keeps getting better. Hes since changed his plans (not just after CO) but also told me, hes only 6hrs away and plans to come back every month and half. He wants me to come to ecuador and visit him when he goes, and all of his friends and i want to plan a trip here in the summer to stay at his hotel.

If it helps...we were both in a relationship with our ex's for 10 years and both of us had a stepson...both of our relationships ended because of our careers. I think we are both standoffish on the word "commitment" because of our pasts.

I see what your saying about having laying the cards out. But a part of me wants to leave all of this alone. Basically, i've built my wall against him and Im "kind of" enjoying it being there. I still have not talked to him or called him and neither has he. Maybe it is best for things to be this way. Its becoming easier everyday as i find new things to do to keep me occupied.

Btw....I really appreciate all of your feedback!