Dont feel like the lone ranger. My birthday is 11/12/59 and I am still waiting on my match. I am patiently waiting on God.
Saggigirl: I have one question.....Do you still love your husband?
IntuitiveCrab: I appreciate you sharing your personal experiences. I know all cancers don’t think alike but the insight you provide to this forum does help. Congratulations on your progress and I pray that you continue to climb the ladder of success. Your focus is now on you and that’s a good thing. I would say you learned a very valuable lesson from your previous relationship. If it is in God’s will for you guys to be together, it will be. If not, that only means He has someone better for you.
Scorp72: Because you are entertaining it. If it was him and I feel you think that it was......why do you think he's playing games? Who knows why but what we do know is he's the one in control as long as you let him be. Have you ever thought that maybe he doesn't want no one else to have you therefore, he will keep your heart tangled up and confused.......
Scorp72: Not if you don't let him. If you begin the healing process.....meaning you are ready to let go. If and when he decides he want to come back into your life you want let him. The reason will be because you will no longer have a desire to let yourself be hurt by him. Understand your friend has some serious issues he needs to work through. Allow him to work through those issues and maybe not for you but someone with your help (allowing him to work through the process of his issues) he will be a better man. I know that is hard but if he's hurting you and your heart is always in torement.....is that the life you want for yourself? How can you ever trust that what he's doing now even if you guys make-up he want do it over and over again like he has done so many times. As Oprah Winfrey once said: " When a person show you who they are believe them"
Scorp72: I totally agree with eliseexige. Start the healing phase......at some point we all must realize when its time to move on. In my opinion it time for you to move on. Stop feeding his ego. Sooner but most likely later he will realize he lost a good lady. He needs to "GROW UP"
DecemberGirl: I can't say all cancer guys are heartless. I have only dated 1 cancer guy. I have to say other than his disappearing act he was one of the kindness guys I have ever dated. The other one was a sagittarius. My memories of him are beautiful. Unfortunately, I messed up with him. I really think their are some great cancer guys out there, we just didn't have good luck with the ones we were involved with. The cancer heartache club is taking one day at a time and knowing that we can get through anything through GOD who strengthen us. Hang in there!
Good Morning Piscesstar and doeyeyedpisces
You guys have a great day.
doeyeyedpisces: How are you doing?
Piscesstar: Thank you for the words widsom. We both deserve so much more and we will get it in time. I know the key is prayer and patience. The prayer I do continuously and in my prayer I ask GOD to help me 2 be patience. A person entered your life for a reason, season, or a lifetime. And as you stated so Eloquently, there is a lesson to be learned. Talk soon.