Hi sungri

Dont feel like the lone ranger. My birthday is 11/12/59 and I am still waiting on my match. I am patiently waiting on God.

Have you tried taking the lead?

MariaRia - Thank you. That is what I am trying to do. It's hard because I think about him all of the time. We had so much fun together at least I thought we did. Thanks for your advice.

TheCaptain: Thank you. Have you ever known a Cancer man to retreat for months? Should I let go?

Saggigirl: I have one question.....Do you still love your husband?

IntuitiveCrab: I appreciate you sharing your personal experiences. I know all cancers don’t think alike but the insight you provide to this forum does help. Congratulations on your progress and I pray that you continue to climb the ladder of success. Your focus is now on you and that’s a good thing. I would say you learned a very valuable lesson from your previous relationship. If it is in God’s will for you guys to be together, it will be. If not, that only means He has someone better for you.

The Captain: Why does cancer guys disappear without warning and want make contact? What is the purpose of their disappearing act?

Thanks IntuitiveCrab. Your thread was very helpful. Curious.....I know it vary for different cancers but what has been your longest retreat without contact?

Scorp72: Because you are entertaining it. If it was him and I feel you think that it was......why do you think he's playing games? Who knows why but what we do know is he's the one in control as long as you let him be. Have you ever thought that maybe he doesn't want no one else to have you therefore, he will keep your heart tangled up and confused.......

Scorp72: Don't you get it??????? He's playing games because he's inmature. Don't let him do this to you. TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE