Oh thank you so much. I'm thriled that you took the time to do this card reading for me. Not to worry about disappointment. I'm just looking answers or direction as to what I can do to help him get his mindset, one way or the other..if you know what I mean. I've been patient with him so far and have not pushed the issue because I do love him very much and we do have a very sweet friendship.
He hasn't been amorous. He says he is does not believe in being intimate with someone unless you are going to marry them. Why? Probably because he has a son who was the product of a fling with an old roommate 30 plus years ago.
Where you say "he may even fear abandonment deep down". I know this to be true. He was married and he traveled on the road as an entertainer and ended up divorced 5 years later. At some point in the last 10 years, I believe in that timeline, he was engaged to a woman and bought her a rather expensive engagement ring....she broke up with him and kept the ring. Since he travels with a cruise line entertaining he is away from home 3-4 months at a time and apparently anyone he was ever interested in ...never hung around to wait for him to come back home. (except me of course, but he callled me everyday too and I couldn't wait to pick him up at the airport.)He says he's tired of traveling and tells me he wants to stay home with me and enjoy "our" house , but to do so he has to find enough work or gigs to compensate him. So yes, restless and concerns over material things makes sense. He wants to keep and enjoy our house therefore he has to make huge changes and he knows that. I have also been depressed recently because I have a new job I love but it doesn't pay enough and I want to contribute to the household equally to take some pressure off him.
Ok the devil card...I don't know of anything... He doesn't drink or smoke and is very into health food, working out... that remains to be seen. I haven't a clue on that. Emotionally manipulative? I don't see it.
Makes sense that nothing is going to happen right now because he is at sea. He will be home mid October. It would be interesting to take another look at the cards then. We are looking forward to celebrating our first year in the house and all of the holidays together this year with his family and mine.
Now as for the number 7 and the tall black dog: LOL I have a little black schnauzer. My sweetie is very attached to her. She is about 10 years old. I don't know the significance of number. 7. Maybe it is my "lucky" number.
Thank you so much.....