I agree with the captain also I was married to one for 11 yrs. he is very goal oriented. if his goal is relationship with you, then he will be very ambitious contacting you, please you. if not, he will not be. and why would you want a cheater anyway? here is what he said according to you "He also admitted to me that he's never been monogamous in past relationships, although he's been in 3 long-term relationships...and they weren't "open" relationships! "