I was asking because for some reason I keep meeting Cancer men. All within the birthdays of July 11 to July 13th. It was the same thing, and yes, they did irritate the heck out of me. However, this last guy is incredible. I know it sounds cliche, but I am starting to feel as if soulmates really do exist. I'm 47, so I am very careful and watch for any signs. But my heart is falling hard despite my efforts to stop. I've been told I'm on the cusp, my birthday is Dec 20th, I don't know if that makes a difference.